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【1】 Aurat Ba wuzu Doodh PiLaawe, QyuKe Doodh Ka Badaa Asar Hota Hai.
【2】 Aurto'n Ki Aadat hai K Bachcho Ko Kahi'n Sipaahi Se, Kahi'n BiLLi Se, aur Kahi'n aur Daraawni Cheezo Se Darati He'n , So Ye Buri Baat Hai, isse Bachcho Ka DiL Kamzor Ho jata Hai.
【3】 Us Ke Doodh PiLaane Ke Liye aur Khana KhiLaane Ke Liye Waqt Muqarrar (Fix) Rakho, K Wo Tandurust Rahe.
【4】 Usko Saaf Suthruaa Rakho K isse Tandurusti Rehti Hai.
【5】 Usko Bahut Banaav Singhaar Mat Karo.
Behashti Zewar-5/282.
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【6】 Agar Ladka (Boy) Ho To Uske Sir (Had) Par BaaL (Hair) Mat Badaao.
【7】 Agar Ladki (GirL) Hai, Usko Jab Tak Parde Me Rehne Ke Layaq Na Hojaye Zewar Mat Pehnao, Usse Ek To Unki Jaan Ka Khatrah Hai, Doosre Bachpan Hi Se Zewar Ka Shokh DiL Me Hona Achha Nahi Hai.
【8】 Bachcho Ke Haath Se Gareebo Ko Khaana, Kapada, Paisa, Aur Aisi Cheeze DiLwaya Karo,
⇨ Isi Tarah Khaane - Peene Ki Cheez Unke Bhai - Bahano Ko Ya Aur Bachcho Ko Taqseem Karaaya Karo, Take Unko Sakhaawat Ki Aadat ho,
⇨ Magar Ye Yaad Rakho Ke Tum Apni Cheezen Unke Haath Se DiLwaaya Karo, Khood Jo Cheez Shariat Me Unhi Ki Ho Usko DiLwaana Kisi Ko Durust Nahi Hai.
【9】 Zyada Khaane Waalo Ki Burayi Uske Saamne Kiya Karo, Magar Kisi Ka Naam Lekar Nahi, BaLke Is Tarah Ke Dekho Beta Jo Koi Zyada Khata Hai To Log Usko Bail Samajte Hai.
【10】 Agar Ladka (Boy) Ho To IsLaami Libaas aur Safed (White) Kapde Ki Ragbat Uske DiL Me Paida Karo, Aur Gair Sharai , Rangeen Aur TakaLLuf Ke Libaas Se Usko Nafrat DiLaao, K Aise Kapde Ladkiya (Girls) Pehanti hai, Tum MaSha ALLah Mard Ho,Hamesha Uske Saamne Aisi Baate Karo.
Behashti Zewer-5/283
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★☆★27-08-2015
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【11】 Agar Ladki (girl) Ho Jab Bhi Zyada Maang, Choti Aur Bahut TakaLLuf Ke Kapdo Ki Usko Aadat Mat DaaLo.
【12】 Uski Sab Zide Puri Mat Karo, Qyuki Us Se Mizaaj Bighadta Hai.
【13】 ChiLLa Kar BoLne Se Roko, Khas Kar Agar Ladki (Girl) Ho To ChiLLane Par Khoob Daanto, Warna Badi Hokar Wahi Aadat Hojayegi.
【14】 Jin Bachchon Ki Aadate Kharaab Hai, Ya Padne-Likhne Se Bhaagte Hai, Ya TakaLLuf Ke Khaane - Kapde Ke Aadi Hai, Unke Paas Baithne Se, Unke Saath KheLne Se Unko Bachaao.
【15】 In Baaton Se Yaani Gussa Karna, Jhoot BoLna, Kisi Ko Dekh Kar JaLna Ya Hirs Karna, Chori, Chughli khaana, Apni Baat Par Adaa Rehna, Khwah Makhaah Usko Banana, Be Fayda Bahut Baate Karna, Be Baat Hansna,Zyada Hansna, Dhoka Dena, BhaLi Buri Baat Ka Na Sochna, vagera,
⇨ Us Ko Nafrat DiLati Raho, Aur Jab In Baato Me Se Koi Baat Hojaye, Fauran Usko Roko, Aur Us Par Tambeeh Karo.
Behashti Zewar-5/283.
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★☆★28-08-2015
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【16】 Agar Koi Cheez Tod Fod De, Ya Kisi Ko Maar Baithe To Munaasib Sazaado, Taake Fir Aisaa Na Kare, Aisi Baato Me Pyaar DuLaar Bachcho Ko Kharaab Aur Kho Detaa Hai.
【17】 Bahut Savere Mat Sone Do.
【18】 Savere Jaaghne Ki Aadat DaaLo.
【19】 Jab ⑦ SaaL Ki Hojaawe Namaaz Ki Aadat DaaLo.
【20】 Jab Maktab (Dineeyaat Ka Madarsa) Me Jaane Ke QaabiL Hojaawe Sab Se PehLe Quraan Ki TaaLim Do.
Behashti Zewar-5/283.
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【21】 Jahaa Tak Ho Sake Deendaar Ustaad Se Padwaao.
【22】 Maktab Me Jaane Me Kabhi Riaayat Mat Karo.
【23】 Kisi Kisi Waqt Un Logo Ko Nek Logon Ki Hikaayate (Stories) Sunaya Karo.
【24】 Unko Aisi Kitaabe Mat Padhne, Aur Mat Dekhne Do Jin Me Aashiqee Maashooqee Ki Baate, Ya Shari'at Ke KhiLaaf Mazmoon Ho, Ya Aur Behudaah Qisse Ya GazLen Vagera Ho.
{Aur Aaj Ke Waqt Me TeLevison ,L c d, Computer Aur MobiLe Vagera Me Aawara Aur Be Hayaa Aur Fahash Program Mat Dekhne Do }.
【25】 Aisi Kitaabe Padwaao Jin Me Deen Ki Baaten Aur Dunyaa Ki Zaruri Kaarwayi Aa Jaawe.
.Behashti Zewar-5/284.
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【26】 Maktab Se Aa jaane Ke Baad Kisi Qadar DiL BehLaane Ke Liye Usko KheL Ne Ki Ijaazat Do, Taake Uski Tabiyat Kund Na Hojaawe, Lekin KhaiL Aisaa Ho, Jis Me Koi Gunaah Na Ho, Chot Lagne Ka Andeshaa Na Ho.
【27】 Aatish Baazi Ya Baajah, Ya FuzooL Cheeze Khareed Ne Ke Liye Paise Mat Do.
【28】 KheL Tamaashe, Jaadu Aur Circus waghairah DikhLaane Ki Aadat Mat DaLwaao.
【29】 AwLaad Ko Zaroor Koi Aisa Hunar Sikhaado Jis Se Zaroorat Aur Museebat Ke Waqt Chaar Paise HaasiL Kar Ke Apna, Apni Beewi Aur Apne Bachcho Ka Guzara Kar Sake.
【30】 Ladkiyo (Girls) Ko Itnaa Likhna Padna SikhLaado Ke Zaroori Paper Aur Khutoot Aur Ghar Ka Hisaab Likh Sake Aur Pad Sake
Bahashti Zewar -5/284
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★☆★31-08-2015
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【31】 Bachcho Ko Aadat DaaLo Ke Apna Kaam Apne Haath Se Kiya Kare, Apaahaj Aur Sust Na Hojaawe, Unko Kaho Ke Raat Ko Bichhona Apne Haath Se Bichhawe, Subah Ko Sawere Uth Kar Teh Kar Ke Ehtiyaat Se Rakhde, Kapdo Ki Ghathdi Apne Entizaam Me Rakhe, Fataa Ho To Khud Si Liya Kare, Kapde Khwah Maile Ho Ya UjhLe Aisi Jagah Rakhe Jaha Keede Aur Chuhe Ka Dar Na ho, Agar Dhoban Ko De To Khud Gin Kar De Aur Likhde Aur Ginkar PadtaaL Kar Ke Le,
【32】 Ladkiyo (Girls) Ko Takeed Karo Ke Jo Zewar Tumhaare Badan Par Hai, Raat Ko Sone Se PehLe Aur Subah Jab Uthe To Dekh BhaaL Kar Liya Kare.
【33】 Ladkiyo (GirLs) Se Kaho Ke Jo Kaam Khaane Pakaane, Seene Pirone, Kapde Rangne, Cheez Bunne, Ka Ghar Me Huwa Kare Usme Ghaor Kar Ke Dekhaa karo Ke Kun Kar Ho Raha Hai.
【34】 Jab Bachche Se Koi Baat Khoobi Ki Zaahir Ho, Us Par Khub Shaabash Do Aur Pyaar Do, BaLke Usko Kuch Enaam Bhi Do, Taake Uska DiL Badhe, Aur
Jab Uski Koi Buri Baat Dekho , PehLe Tanhaaee Me Usko Samjhaao, Ke Dekho Buree Baat Hai, Dekhne WaaLe DiL Me Kya Kehte Hoge, Aur Jis Jis Ko Khabar Hogi Wo DiL Me Kya Kahega, Khabar Daar Fir Aisa Mat Karna, Nek Bakht Ladke Aisa Nahi Kiya Karte, Aur Agar Fir Wahi Kaam Kare To Munaasib Sazaado.
【35】 Maa Ko Chaahiye Ke Bachche Ko Baap Se Daraati Rahai.
Behashti Zewar-5/284.
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★☆★01_09_2015
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【36】 Bachche Ko Koi Kaam Chhupa Kar Mat Karne Do,KhaiL Ho Ya Khaana Ho,
Jo Kaam Chhupa Kar Karega Samajh Jhaao Ke Wo Usko Buraa Samajhtaa Hai, So Agar Wo Buraa Hai To Usse chhudaao, Aur Agar Achha Hai, Jaise Khaana Peena To Usse Kaho Ke Sab Ke Saamne Khaaye Piye.
【37】 Koi Kaam Mehnat Ka Uske Zimme Muqarrar Kardo, Jis Se Sahat Aur Himmat Rahe, Susti Na Aane Paawe, Ek Aadh K.M. ChaLna Waghairah.
【38】 ChaLne Me Taaqeed Karo Ke Bahut JaLdi Na ChaLe, Nigaah Uthaa Kar Na Chale, Raaste Se TakLeef Dene WaaLi Cheeze Hatata Huwa ChaLe.
【39】 Usko Aajizi Ekhtiyaar Karne Ki Aadat DaaLo, Zubaan Se , ChaaL Se Aur Bartaav Se Shaikhi Na Bigharne Paawe, Yaha Tak Ke Apne Ham Umar Bachcho Me Baith Kar Apne Kapde, Makaan, Khaandan, Kitaab wa QaLam Aur Dawaat Aur Takhti Tak Ki Taareef Na Karne Paawe.
【40】 Kabhi Kabhi Usko Do Chaar Rupiye De Diya Karo K Apni Marzi Ke Muwaafiq Kharch Kare, Magar Usko Ye Aadat DaaLo Ke Koi Cheez Tum Se Chhupa Kar Na Khareede.
.Behashti Zewar, 5/285
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★☆★02-09-2015
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【41】 Unko Khaane - Peene Aur Sone Ke Aadab SikhLaao.
【42】 Rozindah Kiye Jaane WaaLe Kaamo Ki Masnoon Duwaaye SikhLaao.
【43】 Apne Se Badon Ka Ehtiraam Karne Ki Taaqeed Karo.
【44】 Har Kaam SaLeeqah Bandi (Diciplin) Se Karne Ki Taaqeed Karte Raho.
【45】 Unko Bachpan Hi Se Duwaa Maangne Ki Aadat DaLwaao.
Bahishti Zewar-5/285
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【46】 Unko MehfiL Me Uthne Baithne Ka Tareeqa Aur Aadab BatLaao.
【47】 Unko Maa-Baap, Daada-Daadi, Naana-Naani, Adna, Aur Bade Bhai Bahan Ke Huqooq BatLaado.
【48】 Qaraabat Daaron Ke Huqooq BatLaado.
【49】 Aam MusaLmaano Ke Huqooq BatLaado.
【50】 Unko Hamsaaya (Padosi) Ke Huqooq Bhi BatLaado.
Beshti Zewar-5/287.
✪ ALLah Subhaanahu Ta'aaLa Ham Sab Ko Apni AwLaad Ki IsLaami Ta'aLeem Wa Tareeq Ke Mutaabiq Tarbiyat Karne Ki Tofeeq Marhamat Farmaaye, Aameen Ya RabbaL AaLameen.
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★☆★04-09-2015
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★ 1- Aulad ko khuda ka inaam samjho,
⇨ Aulad ko khuda ka inaam samjhte huy unki pedaish par khushiya manaye or khuda ka shukr Ada kare, unki khairo barkat ki duay kare,
★ 2- Aulad na ho to khuda se Saleh aulad maange,
⇨ Aulad sirf khuda hi se duay maange, baaz log shirk me mubtila ho jate hai or gairullah ke daro ki thokre khate firte hai, Ye bahut badi jahalat he,
★3- Aulad ki pedaish ko bojh na samjho,
⇨ Tangi ya bimari ki vajah se kabhi apni aulad ko bojh na samjhe,
Madni Mashra,,,,
Safa no. 51
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★☆★05-09-2015
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★4- Aulad ko kabhi Jaaya na Karo,
⇨ Paida hone se pehle ya paida hone ke baad aulad ko Jaaya karna badtareen sangdili, bhayanak zulm, intehai buzdili or do no jahaa ki barbadi he,
★ 5- Viladat wali aurat ke paas Allah ka kalaam padhkar dam kare,
⇨ Ese waqt me fizool kaamo se bache aur Aaytal kursi, Surah Araaf ki 2 aayaat ( 55-56), Surah Falaq aur Surah Naas padhkar dam kare,
Madni Mashra,,,,
Safa no. 51
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★ 6- No- molood ( navjaad) ke Daaye kaan me Azaan or Baaye kaan me Aqamat kahe,
★ 7- No-molood ke liye kisi Marde-Saleh, Allah wale se Tehneek karwaye or Dua karwaye,
⇨ Khajoor vagera ko chabakar khoob naram karke bachche ke taalu me lagane ko Tehneek kehte hai,
★ 8- Bachche ke liye behtar naam tajveez kare,
⇨ Nabi kareem Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ka irshad he k,
khuda ko tumhare naamo me se Abdullah or Abdurrahman sabse zyada pasand he, or Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne bhi farmaya k Ambiya Alaihissalam ke naamo per naam rakho,
® Muslim Sharif•
⇨ Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne farmaya,
" mere naamo per naam rakho, meri kunniyat per nahi, "
® Muslim Sharif,
Madni Mashra,,,,
Safa no.61
Next -14 in sha Allah ta'ala,
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★9- Bachche ka galat naam rakha he to tabdeel karke achchha naam rakho,
⇨ Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam jab kisi ka galat naam sunte to use badal diya karte the,
★ 10- Bachche ka Aqeeka ( saatve din ) Karo or Baalo ke barabar sona ya chandi khairat Karo,
⇨ Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ka irshad he,
" Saatve roz bachche ka naam tajveez kiya jaye or uske baal utarwakar uski taraf se aqeeka kiya jaye,
® Tirmizi Sharif,
⇨ Saatve din khatna bhi karwa dijiye, lekin kisi vajah se na karwaye to saat saal ki umar ke andar andar zaroor khatna karaye, khatna islami sha'aar he,
Madni Mashra,,,,
Safa no.61
Next -15 in sha Allah ta'ala,
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★11- Bachcha jab bolne lage to sabse pehle Kalma sikhao,
⇨Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ka irshad he," Jab tumhari aulad bolne lage to usko " La ilaha illallah" sikhao, jab doodh ke daant ( teeth) gir jaye to namaz ka hukm Karo,"
® ibne Sunni ,
⇨ Ek hadees me ye bhi he k Hujoor S A ke khandan me jab kisi bachche ki zaban khul jati to Aap S A usko Surah Farqan ki doosri aayat sikhate the,
★ 12- Maa bachche ko apna doodh bhi pilaye,
⇨ Maa ka farz he k wo bachcho ko apne doodh ke ek ek katre ke saath toheed, Rasoolullah S A ka ishq, Deen ki muhabbat uske qalb ( heart) or rooh me basane ki koshish kare,
★13- Bachcho ko darane se parhej kare,
⇨ ibtedai umar ka ye dar saari zindgi zehno dimag per chhaya rehta he or ese bachche bil umoom zindgi me koi bada kaarnama anjaam dene ke layak nahi rehte,
Madni Mashra,,,,
Safa no, 57
Next -16 in sha Allah ta'ala,
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★14- Bachcho ko baat baat per jhidakne se sakht parhej kare,
⇨ Aulad ko baat baat per daantna, jhidakna, unki kotahiyo per bejaar hona, nafrat ka izhar karne ki bajaye muhabbat, hikmat v sauj ke saath unki tarbiyat karne ki koahish kare, or apne tarje amal se bachcho ke zehan per ye khof beharhal galib rakhe k unki koi khilafe shara'a baat aap hargiz bardast na karenge,
★15- Aulad ke saath hamesha narmi ka bartaav kare,
⇨unke saath shafkat, muhabbat, narmi ka mamla kare, hasbe Zaroorat v haisiyat unki zaruriyat poori karke unko khush rakhe, or itaat, farmabardari ke jazbaat ubhare,
�� Madni Mashra,,,,
Safa no, 57
Next -17 �� in sha Allah ta'ala,
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★ 16- Aulad ko pakiza taleem or tarbiyat se mujayyan kare,
⇨ Ye aapki deeni zimmedari bhi he, aulad ke saath azeem ahsan bhi or apni zaat ke saath sabse badi bhalai bhi,
☆Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ka irshad he,
," Base apni aulad ko Jo kuchh de sakta he, usme sabse behtar atiya aulad ki achchhi taleem or tarbiyat he, "
® Tirmizi Sharif,
★ 17- Bachcho ko 7 saal ka hone per namaz sikhao or 10 ka ho jaye to namaz me kotahi karne per munasib saza bhi do,
★18- Bachcho ke 10 saal ka hone per unke bistar alag alag kardo,
★ 19- Hamesha bachcho ki taharat, nazafat, pakizgi ka khayal rakho,
★ 20-Doosro ke samne bachcho ke Aib bayan na Karo,
⇨ kisi ke samne unhe sharminda karne se bhi parhej karo,
Madni Mashra,,,,,
Safa no, 61
Next -18 in sha Allah ta'ala,
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★ 21- Bachcho ke samne bachcho ki islaah se mayusi ka izhar na Karo,
⇨ balki unki himmat,hosla badaye,khud aitmad ( self confidence) paida Karo, unki mamuli achchhai ki bhi dil kholkar tareef Karo,
★ 22- Bachcho ko Deeni kisse or Quran khush alhani se padkar sunate raho,
⇨ Bachcho ko Nabiyo, Saleheen, Sahaba ikram, Buzurgane deen ke kisse sunakar unme deeni jazbaat paida Karo,
★ 23- Garibo ko sadqa khairat apne bachcho ke haath se bhi dilao,
⇨ Bachcho me sakhawat ka jazba, garibo se hamdardi paida karne ke liye kabhi kabhi unke haatho se sadqa khairat karwana chahiye,
→ apne ghar me apne Behan Bhaiyo me aapas me khane ki cheezo ko bhi baatkar khane ki aadat dalna chahiye,
Madni Mashra,,,,,
Safa no, 61
Next -19 in sha Allah ta'ala,
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★ 24-Bachcho ki beja zid poori na Karo,
⇨ balki hikmat ke saath unki ye Aadat chhudane ki koshish kare, kabhi kabhi munasib sakhti bhi kare, Beja laad pyar se unko ziddi or khudsar na banaye,
★ 25- Bachcho ko apne haath se kaam karne ki aadat dalo,
★26- Bachcho me baham ladai hone per apne bachcho ki beja himayat na Karo,
★ 27- Aulad ke mabeen hamesha barabari ka sulook Karo,
★ 28- Bachcho ke samne hamesha amali namoona pesh Karo,
⇨ Aapki zindgi bachcho ke liye ek hamwaqti khush muallim he, jisse bachche har waqt padte - seekhte rehte hai, bachcho ke samne kabhi mazaak me bhi jhoot na bole,
★ 29- Ladki paida hone per bhi ladko ki tarah khushi manaye,
Madni Mashra,,,,
Safa no. 64
Next -20 in sha Allah ta'ala,
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★ 30- Ladkiyo ki tarbiyat or parvarish intehai khush dili se Karo,
★ 31- Ladke or Ladkiyo ke mabeen eksa mohabbat ka izhar Karo,
★ 32- Jaaydad me ladkiyo ko muqarrah hissa khush dili se do,
⇨ Ye khuda ka farz karda hissa he, isme kami besi karne ka kisi ko koi akhtyar nahi, ladki ka hissa dene me heele karna ya Shadi me Jahez dekar ya waqt be waqt kuchh dekar mutmain ho Jana itaate sha'ar momin ka kaam nahi, esa karna khayanat bhi he or khuda ki den ki toheen bhi,
★ 33- Mazkoora ( jitne ouper bayan ho chuke 1-32) amali tadbeero ke saath Aulad ke haqq me duae bhi karte rahe or tavakko rakhe k walden ke dil ki gehrai se nikli duae jaaya nahi hoti hai,
〰Alhamdulillah Mukammal 〰
Madni Mashra,,,,
Safa no. 64
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