{ TOHFA E DULHAA }

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                  PART— 01
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☞ 1- Pehli Nasihat ,

★• Allah Subhanahu va Ta'ala ka irshad he k, Ey imaan walo !

❁ • Tumko Ye baat Halaal nahi ki Aurto'n Ke ( Maal Ya Jaan ke ) Jabran Malik ho Jao aur in Aurto'n ko is garz se muqayyad ( Qaid) mat karo k Jo Kuchh tum logo ne inko diya he usme ka koi hissa ( bhi inse ) Vasool kar lo magar ye k Aurte'n koi sareeh nashasta harkat kare,

❁• Aur in Aurto'n ke saath khoobi ke saath guzraan kiya karo ( yani khush Akhlaaqi aur Naan nafqa ki Khabar giri )

❁ • Aur agar wo Tumko na pasand ho to ( ye samajh kar bardasht Karo k ) mumkin he k Tum ek Shai ( Cheez) ko na pasand Karo aur Allah ta'ala uske Andar ( tumhare liye ) koi badi munfa'at ( Duniyavi v Deeni ) rakh de,

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Tarjuma: - Surah An-nisa: 19, Ma'arful Quran, 2/349
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TOHFA E DULHAA

                  PART— 02
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☞ 2- Doosri Nasihat ,

★• Pyare Bhai ..Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne Farmaya:: ---

❁ • Aurto'n ke saath bhalaai ka Ahatmaam kiya Karo, Qyuki Aurat Pasli se Paida ki gayi he aur Pasli me zyada Teda uska ouper ka hissa he,

❁ • isliye agar tu use Sidha karne lagega to use Tod dalega aur agar Chhorega to wo Tedi hi rahegi,

❁ • Lihaza Aurto'n ke saath Bhalaai ka ahatmam kiya Karo,

Muslim Sharif

❁ • isliye pyare Musalman Bhai Aapko chahiye k Huzoor e Akram Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ki is nasihat v wasiyat per Amal karne ki Niyat karte hue Aaj se hi Aap apni Bivi ke saath Husne Sulook Shuru kar de,

❁ ･Uski kotahiyo se darguzar kare, Apne mizaaj ke muwafiq 100 fi sadi usko dhaalne ki koshish me waqt zaaya na kare,

❁ ･Qyuki Aurat ka Shohar ki Tabiyat ke khilaaf hona koi Aib nahi he k unki fitrat ka taqaza yahi he k woh Tedi ho, Pasli ke abdar Tedapan hona iska aib nahi balki uska Husn he,
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TOHFA E DULHAA

                  PART— 03
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☞ 3- Teesri Nasihat ,

★• Pyare Bhai.! Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne farmaya,: -

❁ • ( Be parda ) Aurat Shaitan ki Soorat me aati he aur Shaitan ki Soorat me Jati he,

❁ • Lihaza Jab Tumme se Koi kisi ( Ajnabi ) Aurat ko dekhe ( aur woh use pasand aaye ) to foran apni Bivi ke paas aaye, Qyuki ye ( Aana ) us khwahish ko khatm kar dega Jo uske Dil me paida Hui,

Muslim Sharif,

❁ • Avvalan poori koshish kare k kisi Na-mahram per Nigaah hi na padne paye aur Khuda na khwasta agar esa ho jaye to foran Nazre hata kar ye Dua padhe,

" Allahumma inni A'auzubika min fitnatin Nisa'a, ""

❁ • Yaad rakhiye Aapne apni nigaaho ki Hifazat kar li to Aap ki Aulaad bhi afeef aur paakiza hogi,

❁ •isliye nigaah chashmi aur nigaah Qalbi ( Yani Na-mahram ka tasawwur ) dono ki hifazat karne ki koshish kare,

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TOHFA E DULHAA

                  PART— 04
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☞ 4- Chothi Nasihat ,

★• Pyare Bhai ! Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne farmaya: -

❁ • Qayamat ke Din Allah Ta'ala ke yaha martaba ke aitbaar se Bura Shakhs woh hoga Jo ( Duniya me) Apni Bivi se wazifa e Zojiyat Ada kare aur fir uski poshida baate Zaahir karta fire,,

Muslim Sharif,

❁ • Apni Bivi ke Husn ki tareef dosto ke saamne hargiz na kare, agar koi be-takalluf Dost puchhe to sirf Yu'n keh dijiye,

" Alhamdulillah me mutma'in hu'n,, "

❁ • isi tarah khud bhi kisi na-mahram Aurat ke bare me Bivi se bilkul na puchhe, na uske batlane per Sune,

❁ • Balki foran Chup kar de aur Samjhaye k,

"" Mujhe kisi Aurat ke Jismani Khad v Khaal ( husno Jamal ) ya Bol Chaal ke bare me bilkul na batao, ---

❁ • Varna us Gunah ki nahusat ye hogi k Tumhari aur Meri muhabbat me fark aa jayega,,, """

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TOHFA E DULHAA

                  PART— 05
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☞ 5- Paanchvi Nasihat ,

★• Pyare Bhai,,! Allah Ta'ala ka irshad he,,,,,

❁ • Mard Haakim he Aurto'n per is vajah se k Allah Ta'ala ne baazo ko ( yani Mardo ko ) baazo per ( yani Aurto'n per qudrati ) fazilat di he aur is vajah se Mardo ne ( Aurto'n per ) apne maal kharch kiye he'n,

❁ • So Jo Aurte'n Nek he'n wo ita'at ( obey ) karti he'n, ( aur ) Mard ki gair Mojoodgi me ( bhi ) hifazat ( uske maal v Aabru ki ) nigahdaasht karti he'n,

❁ • Aur Jo Aurte'n esi ho k ( tumko Quran se ) unki bad-dimaagi ka ahatmal ho to unko ( Pehle to ) zabani nasihat Karo, aur ( na maane to ) unko unke letne ki jagah ( bad room) me Tanha chhod do,

❁ •Aur ( isse bhi na mane to ) unko ( aitdaal ke saath ) maro, fir agar wo Tumhari ita'at karna shuru kar de to to un per ( zyadti karne ke liye ) bahana ( aur moqa ) mat talash Karo,

❁ • Kyuki bila Shubha Allah Ta'ala badi raf'at aur Azmat wale he'n,

Surah An-Nisa, 34, Tarjuma: Ma'artful Quran, Jild -2 ,safa -393

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TOHFA E DULHAA

                  PART— 06
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☞ 6- Chhati Nasihat ,

★• Mere Pyare Bhai ! Hazrat Abdullah ibne Abbaas Raziyallahu Ta'ala Anhuma irshad farmate he'n k,

❁ • Me apne Aapko Bivi ke liye araasta karta hu jese k wo apne aapko mere liye araasta ( Sajti he ) karti he,

❁ • Aur me ye pasand nahi karta k usse Safaai Suthraai ka apna to poora haq vasool karu aur uska haq Jo mujh per waajib ho jaye usme kotahi karu,

❁ •isliye k Allah Ta'ala ka irshad he,

" Aur Aurto'n ka bhi haq he jesa k Mardo ka un per Haq he qaayde ke muwafiq, "

Yani ye munasib nahi k khud to Bivi se ye chahu k Jab us per Nazar pade to wo araasta v peraasta ( saji sanwri ) ho aur Khud bikhre Baal, gandi Topi, Mela kurta, Bujha hua chehra liye hue hu'n,

❁ •Esa kabhi na kare, Khud bhi apna khayal rakhe taki Jism bhi theek ho, Baal Dadi khoobsurat lage, Chehra ba-ronak ho aur iski koshish kare k hamesha Jism se khushbu aaye,

( Yani itr ka aur garmiyo me Subeh Shaam Gusl ka ahatmam kare, (

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TOHFA E DULHAA

                  PART— 07
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☞ 7- Saatvi Nasihat ,

★•Mere Pyare Bhai.! Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam se Bivi ke Haq ( lafz " Haq " yaad rahe koi riayat aur Ahsan nahi ) ke bare me sawal kiya gaya to Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne farmaya: -

❁ • k " ise khilaye jab tu khaye aur Apni Bivi ko pehnaye jab Tu pehne, aur uske chehre per na maar aur use bura bhala na keh ( Yani uski soorat aur Seerat me aib na nikaale,)

❁ • Aur use ( agar tambeeh ke Tor per Khud se alag karna he to ) ghar ke andar hi alag kare yani usi makaan me rakh, "

Abu Daowd,

❁ • Lihaza Musalman Shohar is baat ko jaan le k Sasuraal me Bivi Jo Khud khati he ye uska Haq he,

❁ • Jo kuchh Pehanti he ye uska Haq he, us per koi ahsaan nahi he,
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TOHFA E DULHAA

                  PART— 08
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☞ 8- Aathvi Nasihat ,

★• Pyare Bhai.! Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne irshad farmaya,

❁ • Koi Momin ( apni ) Momina ( Bivi ) se nafrat na kare, Agar uski (Bivi ki koi ) Aadat usko napasand he to ho sakta he k dooari ( koi ) Sift usko pasand bhi ho,

Muslim,

❁ • Shahad ki Makkhi achchai talaash karti he isliye Keechad me bhi Kanwal per hi Beth ti he, Aam Makkhi gandgi hi talaash karti he isliye Baag me bhi galazat per hi Beth ti he,

❁ •Bas is usool ke tahat Apni Bivi me achchhai talaash karoge to yaqeenan mil jayegi, aur usse Nafrat muhabbat me badal jayegi,

❁ • Yaad rahe ye Shayri nahi haqeeqat he, Allah ta'Ala aur Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallan ka hukm he,

❁ •Amal karke dekhiye in sha Allah ta'ala Kaaya palat jayegi,
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TOHFA E DULHAA

                  PART— 09
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☞ 9- Navi Nasihat ,

★• Pyare Bhai.! Allah Ta'ala ka irshad he,

❁ • Ey imaan walo Tum apne ko aur Apne Ghar walo ko ( Dozakh ki ) us Aag se bachao Jiska iydhan Aadmi aur Patthar he'n

❁ • Jis per Tabd Khu ( aur ) Mazboot qavi Farishte ( mutaiyan ) he'n Jo Khuda ki ( Zara ) na-farmani nahi karte kisi baat me Jo unko Hukm deta he

❁ • Aur Jo kuchh unko Hukm diya jata he usko ( foran ) baja laate he'n,

Surah Tehreem, Aayat no.6 - Tarjuma Ma'arful Quran,

❁ • Wazahat --- Yani Khud bhi Nek bane aur Apne Ghar walo ko bhi Deen daar banane ke liye khoob mehnat aur Dua'en kare,

❁ •Be-deeni hi Dozakh tak le jati he ghar walo ko Deen daar banane ki Asaan tarkeeb ye he k,

❁ • 1- Unhe Allah ke Raaste me Waqt lagane ke liye aksar le jaye,

❁ •2- Nek Saleh Buzurgo ke Bayan Sunaye,

❁ • 3- Mustanad Deeni Kitabe'n padhne ke liye de'n,

❁ • 4- Har Farz Namaz ke baad aur Tilawat karne ke baad unki islaah aur Hidayat ke liye Allah se khoob Khoob Duae'n maange,

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                  PART— 10
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☞ 10- Dasvi Nasihat ,

★• Mere Pyare Bhai! Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne irshad farmaya: -

❁ • Aurto'n ke maamle me Allah se Daro, Tumne unhe Allah Ta'ala ke Amaan ke zariye haasil kiya he, aur Unki Sharmgaho ko Allah Ta'ala ke Kalme ke zariye Halaal kiya he,

❁ • Un per Tumhara Haq he k woh Tumhare Ghar me un logo ko na aane de, Jinko tum na pasand karte ho,

❁ •Agar wo esa kare to unko maaro magar esi maar Jo zyada Shadeed na ho ( aur Chehre per hargiz na ho ),

❁ • Aur unka Tum per ye haq he k Tum unke naan nafqa aur Kapde ki dastoor ke muwafiq zimmedari poori Karo,

Muslim Sharif
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TOHFA E DULHAA

                  PART— 11
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☞ 11- Gyaarvi Nasihat ,

★• Mere Pyare Bhai ! Amirul momineen Sayyadna Umar ibne Khattab Raziyallahu Anhu irshad farmate he'n,

❁ • Mard ko chahiye k apne ghar ke Andar khush kalami, Khanda peshani aur Unsiyat ke aitbaar se Bachche ki tarah ho,

❁ • Aur jab ghar se bahar logo ke saath ho to fir bhar poor Mard ban jaye,

❁ • Har Musalman Shohar is nasihat per Amal kar le to yaqeenan gharo ke kai jhagde Kai talaaqe Maayke beth Jana, Khula le Lena vagera bahut si pareshaniya'n Khatm ho jaye,

❁ •Tajurba karke dekh lijiye ye Us Sahabi aur Amirul Momineen ki Nasihat he jiske bare me Huzoor Akram Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne irshad farmaya k Agar mere baad koi Nabi hota to Umar hota, "

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TOHFA E DULHAA

                  PART— 12
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☞ 12- Baarvi Nasihat ,

★•.Mere Pyare Bhai ! Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam irshad farmate he'n ,

❁ • Musalman Mard ka har khel baatil he Sivae Tirandazi aur Ghode ki Tarbiyat aur Apni Bivi ke saath Hansi Mazaaq ke k ye Sahi he ,

Tirmizi ,

❁ • Itteba e Shariyat badi Ajeeb cheez he kaas hum Musalman aaj uski Haqeeqat maloom karte aur apni ma'ashrat v maamlaat me So fi sad Deen ke ahkamaat ko Zinda karne ki koshish karte to har Ghar Jannat ka namoona banta ,

❁ • is ek Hadees se hi andaza laga lijiye k ghar walo ke saath Pyar Muhabbat karna ,unke saath Hansi Mazaaq karna ,unki Jaa'iz Khwahish poori karne ki fikr karna in sabko Haq me shumar kiya gaya ,

❁ •Aur un per bhi esa hi Ajr v Sawab milega Jis tarah Nifli ibaadat per milta he ,agar Niyat Sawab aur Allah Ta'ala ko Raazi karne ki ho ,

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TOHFA E DULHAA

                  PART— 13
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☞ 13- Teharvi Nasihat ,

★• Mere Pyare Bhai ! Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne irshad farmaya,

❁ • Momino me sabse kaamil imaan wala Wo Shakhs he Jo sabse behtar Akhlaaq wala ho aur Apne Ghar walo ke saath narmi aur Achchha bartaav karne wala ho ,

Tirmizi,

❁ • Khush Qismat he Wo Musalman Jo Zahiri Cheezo me bhi Huzoor Akram Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ki itteba kare aur Akhlaaq ,Ma'amlaat ,Ma'ashrat aur Zindgi ke har Shobe me Sunnat ki itteba ki koshish kare ,

❁ • itteba e Sunnat insaan ki Duniya bhi banati he Akhirat bhi banati he aur Zindgi ko sanwaarti he ,

❁ • Hazrat Aayesha Raziyallahu Anha farmati he'n k Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne saari Umr Azwaaje Mutahraat Raziyallahu Anhum me se na Sirf ye k Kisi per haath nahi uthaya balki Jab bhi Ghar ke Andar dakhil hue to Chehre Mubarak per tabassum hota tha ,

❁ • Aap bhi Sachche Muhammadi hone ka saboot dete hue is ek Sunnat per Ahatmaam se Amal karte hue apne Rab se Ja miliye ,

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TOHFA E DULHAA

                  PART— 14
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☞ 14- Chodhvi Nasihat ,

★• Mere Pyare Bhai ! Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne irshad farmaya,:-

❁ • Jab tumme se koi kisi Aurat se Nikaah kare ya Khadim kharide ( Rakhe ) to ye kahe ,Ey Allah ! Me aapse iski khairo Barkat ka aur iski paidaishi Khaslat ki khairo Barkat ka Jis per Aapne isko paida kiya he sawal karta hu ,

❁ • Aur Ey Allah ! Me Aapse iski Shararat se aur jis Shararat per ye paida huva panaah maangta hu ,

❁ • Fir iski peshani ke Baal pakad kar uske liye Barkat ki Dua kare ,

Abu Daowd ,

❁ • Dua ke saath Apni nigaho ki bhi na- Mahram Aurto'n se Hifazat kare ,

❁ • Chahe Wo Bhabhi ho ,KhalaZaad ho ,MamuZaad ho ya Saali ho ,

❁ • is tarah Nigaaho ki Hifazat se Bivi ke Dil me Aapki aur Aapke Dil me Bivi ki Sachchi Muhabbat paida hogi ,

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                  PART— 15
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⊙ Dulha Ko Nasihat ⊙

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☞ 15- Pandrahvi Nasihat ,

★• Mere Pyare Bhai !
Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam se kisi ne Sawal kiya ,:-

❁ • Humme se ek Aadmi Bivi ke paas jata he aur usse Sohbat karta he Kya uske liye is Amal ki vajah se bhi Ajr he ?

❁ • Tum Batao agar Woh Aadmi apni Shahwat kisi Haraam Jagah poori karta us per Gunaah hota ,?

❁ • To isi tarah jab usne Halaal jagah Shahwat poori ki to uske liye iske badle Ajro Sawab hoga ,

Muslim Sharif

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                  PART— 16
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⊙ Dulha Ko Nasihat ⊙

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☞ 16- Sohlvi Nasihat ,

★• Mere Pyare Bhai ! Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne irshad farmaya ;-

❁ • Jab Tumme se koi apni Bivi ke paas ( Sohbat ke iraade se ) aaye to ye Dua padhe ,,

❁ • " Shuru Allah ke naam se , Ey Allah Shaitan ko hum dono se door kar de ,aur is Milaap ki vajah se Aapne Jo hamare liye Aulaad likh di he unse bhi Shaitan ko door kar de ,"

❁ • ( Huzoor Sallallahu Alaihivasallam farmate he'n k ) Agar is milaap se Bachcha paida huva to ( in sha Allah) Shaitan usko koi nuqsaan nahi pahuncha Sakega ,

Bukhari Sharif

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                  PART— 17
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⊙ Dulha Ki Duhan ko Nasihat ⊙

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★• Jis Tarah Aap Dulhan ko pehli baar dekh kar usse diljoi ki baat karenge waha minjumla baato se usko ye Nasihat bhi zaroor kare ,

❁ • Jis tarah tum Zever aur Kapde se Araasta v Peraasta ho kar khush ho rahi ho ,usse zyada me Khush hounga Jab tum meri Nasihat per Dil v Jaan se Amal karogi ,kyuki Tumhari khubiya tumhara sabse bada Zever hogi ,

❁ • Agar kabhi meri Waalda ya Behne Ya doosri Bhabiya'n tumse kisi maamle me esa bartaav kare Jo tumhare nazdeek namunasib ya bura ho ,ya Waqai unse tumhare maamle me koi galti ya zyadti bhi ho Jaye to us per Chhoti ban kar Allah Paak ko Raazi karne ke liye aur Aalame Akhirat me us per Bahut Zyada Ajro Sawab pane ke liye Sabr kar Lena ,aur Mujhse Shikayat na karna ,

❁ • Esa na ho k Tum baar baar mujhse kaho k Aapki Waalda ne mere saath ye bartaav kiya he ,ya Aapki Bahan ne mujhe esa kaha he ,ya Aapki Bhabi to sidhe moonh mujhse baat hi nahi karti ,

❁ • Ya Aapke Bhai Bahan ke Bachcho ne meri fala cheez kharaab kar di magar na Aapki Bhabiyo ne roka na Aapki Bahno ne ,

❁ • Ya mere Pakaye hue Khane me Aapki Ammi Jaan ya Bahno ne das ( 10 ) Aib nikaale Vagera Vagera,

❁ • Yaad Rakhna Agar tumne is tarah ki baate ki to iska sabse bada nuqsaan ye hoga k Mera Dil tumse hi bura ho jayega aur Khuda na kare agar mene Tumhari baate Sun kar aur unko So fisadi ( 100℅ ) sahi samajh kar apni Walda mohatrama ki Shaan me Gustakhi kar di to hum dono ki Duniya v Akhirat dono Barbaad ho jayegi ,

❁ • isliye Yaad rakhna k Mard Thake Maande apne Kaam se ghar me sukoon Haasil karne ke liye aate he'n ,Agar Biviya"n Saas aur Nanad ke Jhagde ki tafsilaat Shohar ko batane lagi to unki kya kaifiyat hogi ,lihaza tum isse bachna ,

❁ in sha Allah Tum khud hi iske Faayde ka mushahida karogi ,

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                  PART— 18
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⊙ Dulha Apni Waalda ,Bahno se Arz kar De ⊙

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★• Dulha Sahab Aap Apni Walida aur Bahno se bhi ye Arz kar de ke ,

❁ • Baahami Shikayaat Aapko hargiz na bataye ,balki unhe khud hi Husne tadbeer aur Sabr v Tahammul ke saath nimta diya kare ,

❁ • Gharelu Jhagdo ke mutalliq meri Bivi ki koi baat mujhe na bataiye ,

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TOHFA E DULHAA

                  PART— 19
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⊙ Dulha Ko Nasihat ⊙

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☞ 19- Unneesvi Nasihat ,

★• Mere Pyare Bhai !

❁ • Baraye Meharbani, Allah ke waaste ,Bivi se suni hui Baato Kï Vajah se Apni Walid ko kuchh bhi na kahiyega ,

❁ • Walida Kï Aah nikalne se Duniya v Akhirat dono barbaad hone ka andesha he ,

❁ •Walida Kï waqai galti saamne aa bhi jaye to Pyar v Muhabbat se Samjhane Kï koshish kare ,Badi Behan ke zariye Samjhaiye,

❁ •Bivi se Walida ko Hadiya Dilwaiye ,Hadees me aata he ," Hadiya liya Diya karo ,isse Aapas me Muhabbat badhegi ,"

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TOHFA E DULHAA

                  PART— 20
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⊙ Dulha Ko Nasihat ⊙

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☞ Saas Bahu me Muhabbat Paida Karne ka Asaan Nuskha ,

❁ • iski bahut hi asaan tadbeer ye he k Apni Bivi ke zariye Apni Waalida ko unki Pasand ke muwafiq Hadiye dilwaiye ,

❁ • Jo Cheez Aap Waalida ke liye laye Wo bajaye Aap khud unhe dene ke Bivi ke Haatho dilwaiye ,

❁ •Aur jab bhi Aapki Ahliya apne Maayke jaye to use takeed kare k Wo waapsi per Apni Saas aur Nanado aur Bhabhiyo aur Unke Bachcho ke liye kuchh na kuchh Tohfe zaroor lekar aaye ,Chahe Mamooli hi kyu na ho ,,,

❁ • Aur apne haatho se unki khidmat me pesh kare ,

❁ • Yaqeenan is tarje Amal se ,is tarah Hadiye dene se Aapas me Muhabbat badhegi aur Duae'n alag milengi ,

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                  PART— 21
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⊙ Suhaag Raat ⊙

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☞ Zaroori Wazahat ,

❁ • Afsos he k Aaj Be haya mashra ne Hume itna Be haya Bana diya k Hum Suhaag Raat Ko Ek khel Tamasha aur Sirf Jismani khwahish ko poora karne ka ek Zariya Samajh rahe he'n ,

❁ • Had to tab hoti he Jab Hamare Bhai is Raat ke liye ,Nangi Tasveero ,Blue Filmo Kï Nangi aur Be huda Clipping ke zariye Shaitani Tareeqo se Apni Jinsi Taskeen karte he'n ,Jin tareeqo per Allah Kï laanat hoti he ,

*_Nayi Zindgi Kï Shuruaat Shaitan ko saath le kar nahi Balki Khuda ko Saath le kar Kijiye, in Sha Allah Zindgi Khushgawaar guzregi ,

❁ •Yaad Rakhiye k Shadi se pehle Na- pukhta Aalim ya Gair tajurbe kaar dosto se is mozu per na khud baat kare na unki kahi hui baato per tavajjoh de ,balki sirf Ye 2 kaam kare ,

❁ •1- Mo'atbar Mufti Hazraat se Aham Masail note karke puchh le taki Zoja ke saath ke mamulaat maamlaat me Shara'i aur Masnoon tareeqa Aapke saamne aa jaye ,

❁ •2- Doosra kaam ye kare k Allah Ta'ala se har maamle me asaani Kï Duae'n karne ke saath apne kisi sanjeeda soch wale Shadi Shuda qareebi ba aitmaad dost ya Rishtedar se zaruratan kuchh Tajurbe Kï baate maloom kar le ,

❁ •Bas itna kaam kar lene se bhi Aapke Dil ka hol ya anjani si pareshani ya anokhi si ghabrahat khasi kam ho jayegi ,

❁ •Aur Aap hone wali Mankuha ke liye khoob Duae'n bhi kare ,isse khud ba khud min janib Allah uske Dil me bhi Aapki Muhabbat paida hogi ,

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                  PART— 22
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⊙ Bivi Ko Shara'i Ahkaam Per Amal Karne se Na Roke ⊙

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☞ Dulha Ko Nasihat -1 ,

❁ • Aapki Bivi Jabki Alhamdulillah Sahi Aqeede Kï paaband he ,Af'aal ,Bid'at aur Jahalat bhari Shirkiya Rasmo se Bachi hui he ,Usko Deeni taleem mili he Jo Khush naseeb hi ko milti he ,

❁ • To fir Aap is bina per k Aap uske Shohar he'n ,us per ese Ahkaam kyu lagate he'n k ," Meri Walida ke yaha'n" Koonde "hote he'n ,tumhe bhi usme Shamil hona padega ,

❁ •Mohalle me fala jagah Chaleesve Kï Dawat he ,tumhe bhi Waha meri numaindgi ke liye zaroor Jana hoga ,vagera Vagera,

❁ •Jo cheeze Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihivasallam aur Hazraat Sahaba kiraam saabit nahi ( Balki bila Shubha Deen me izafa he ) unko Akhtyar karne per Bivi ko Kyu majboor karte ho ?

❁ •Aapko to Khush ho Jana chahiye k Aapko Allah Ta'ala ne Fizool bakhedo aur Jaahil Rasmo se bachne wali Bivi ataa farmayi he ,

❁ •Fir kyu usko is bhanwar me fasa te ho k Wo Shohar ki farmaish ya Hukm ko Allah Ta'ala ke Hukm aur Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Kï layi hui Shariyat ke ahkaam se bada samjhe aur Apni Deeni Zindgi ko Akhtyar na kar sake ?

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                  PART— 23
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⊙ Bivi Ko Shara'i Ahkaam per Amal Karne se Na Roke ⊙

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☞ Dulha Ko Doosri Nasihat ,

❁ • Agar Bivi mukammal Parda karti he aur Jaha tak ho sake iska ahatmaam karti he k Kisi gair Aurat yaha tak k Nurse ya Bhangan ke saamne bhi Sar ke Baal aur Kalaaiya nahi kholti ( Aur yahi hukme Shara'i he ),

❁ • To aapko kya takleef he k us per naraazgi ke bam barsaao !

❁ •Agar Wo Mohalle Kï ese gharano Kï Aurto'n se Mel jol nahi rakhna chahti Jo Deen se doori ya galat aqeede rakhti he'n aur jinse bachna Shar'an zaroori bhi he ,

❁ •To kya Aap sirf is bina per k unki Dilshikni hogi k hamari majlis me aur hamari taqribaat ( program) me fala log nahi aate ,apni Bivi ko galat logo Kï galat mehfilo me bhejne per israar karte ho ?

❁ •Kisi Kï DilShikni se bachne ke liye Kya Apne Deen v imaan ko kharaab karna Sahi he ? Faisla hum Aap per chhor dete he'n,

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                  PART— 24
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⊙ Bivi ko Shara'i Ahkaam Per Amal Karne se Na Roke ⊙

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☞ Dulha ko Teesri Nasihat ,

❁ • Agar Bivi Aapke Bhaiyo ( Apne Dever ,Jeth ) aur Apne aur Aapke Khalazaad, Chachazaad ,Fufizaad ,Mamuzaad aur Aapke Chchao ,Mamuo se mukammal Parda karti he,

❁ • Aur Aapke Dosto'n ke saamne bhi nahi aati he aur Esi taqareeb ( programs) me bhi Jane se bachti he jaha unka saamna ya mel jol ho ,

❁ •To Aap kyu Usko numaish Kï cheez bana kar sabke saamne laa rahe ho ? Kya sirf Isliye k Wo bhi Apni Biviya'n laate he'n ,?

❁ •To Hazrat Aapse Ajzizana Arz ye he k Wo log apni Biviyo'n ke nazare isiliye kara rahe he'n k badle me doosro Kï Biviyo'n ke nazare kare ,

❁ •Yaad Rakhiye ! In sab giri hui aur haraam harkato ka anjaam sivae Allah Ta'ala Kï naraazgi aur Duniya me mukhtalif pareshaniyo aur Balaao ke nazil hone aur maut ke baad Jahannam me jalne ke Siva kuchh nahi ,

❁ •Allah Ta'ala hum sabki hifazat farmaye ,,Aameen

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                  PART— 25
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⊙ Chand Lafzo Me Khulasa-1 ⊙

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❁ •1- Miya Bivi jab tak Nek Nahi hote ,Ek Nahi hote ,Isliye khud bhi Nek baniye aur Apni Ahliya ko bhi Nek banane Kï koshish Kijiye,

❁ • 2-Shadi (شادی) ش Ke Teen nuqto ke bager ( Yani سادی ) Saadgi se karne ki koshish kijiye, in Sha Allah Ta'ala bahut hi khair v Barkat ka zahoor hoga ,

❁ •3-Mehar e Fatmi ( 131 tola 3 masha Chaandi ye iski qeemat ) muqarrar Kijiye aur foran ada karne Kï koshish Kijiye k ye bahut hi behtar he ,

❁ •4-Jahez ka Mutalba na zaban se na Dil se Kijiye, Ye Mard Kï gairat ke khilaf he k Wo Bivi se kisi qism ke Maali mutalbaat kare ya iski tamanna kare ,Jo kuchh maangna ho Wo Allah hi se maange aur fir koshish shuru kar dijiye,

❁ •5-Jaha tak ho sake Alag rehne Kï koshish Kijiye, is zamane me Do Bahuo'n jesi mukhtalif mizaaj Aurto'n ka ikattha rehna aur fir us per Nanad aur Saas ke saath rehna ghar Kï rahi sahi khushgawar fiza ko kamzor bana deti he ,

❁ •6-Bivi se Muhabbat paida hone ke liye akseer nuskha aur behtreen taveez ye he k Aap apni nigaho Kï hifazat Kijiye, Jinko dekhna Allah Ta'ala ne na pasand farmaya he ,Jo unhe dekhta he kabhi bhi apni Bivi se Sachchi Muhabbat nahi kar sakta, Chahe Wo kitni hi haseen v ZAMEEN kyu na ho ,lihaza na Mehram Aurto'n se Khususan Bhabhiyo'n aur Khalazaad ,Mamuzaad vagera se apni nigaho Kï hifazat Kijiye,

*__ Baqi Agle part me ,,

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                  PART— 26
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⊙ Chand Lafzo me Khulasa -2 ⊙

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❁ • 7- Ek usool hamesha yaad rakhiye ,Aurat Kï fitrat me he k Tareef se khush hoti he ,isliye khushgawar Shadi shuda Zindgi guzaarne ke liye apni Bivi Kï Tareef zaroor Kijiye, isse Aapki bahut si gharelu pareshaniya khatm ho jayegi aur bahut si shikayate door ho jayegi ,

❁ • 8- Miya Bivi ke 90℅ jhagde Shohar ke ghar se nikalte waqt ya waapsi per ghar me Dakhil hote hui hote he'n, lihaza in dono waqto me khoob khayal rakhiye ,Shaitan ko behkane ka moqa na dijiye, Yaad rakhiye ! Do Musalmano me Jhagda Allah Ta'ala Kï Rehmat ko door kar deta he ,

❁ •9- Walida se alag rehte hue apni Bivi ke zariye unhe hadiye aur Aksar paka pakaya khana bhijwaye aur khud bhi unke ghar khali haath na jaye ,Kuchh na kuchh Hadiya zaroor le kar jaye ,Aur Agar saath rehte he'n to Walida ko is baat ka ahsaas na hone dijiye k mera Beta mere muqable me Bivi se zyada Muhabbat karne laga he ,

❁ •Yaad rakhiye ! Bachche Bachche hi hote he'n, unhe buzurg na samjhiye ,unki vajah se Apni Bivi se Jhagda na kare ,Ek Din ghar ka poora charge Sambhal kar dekhiye ,in Sha Allah sab kuchh samajh me aa jayega ,

❁ •isi tarah Bachcho Kï tarbiyat Kï khatir aur Jachcha Bachche ki Sahat ka khayal rakhte hue Do bachcho ke darmiyan munasib waqfa ( gape) ya Shara'i uzr Kï haalat me lamba waqfa kar lijiye, yahi munasib he ,

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                  PART— 27
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⊙ Miya Bivi me Muhabbat Ke Wazeefe ⊙

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☞ 1- Pehla Wazeefa ,

❁ • Do Musalmano me ikhtilaf ya Jhagda Shaitan Kï sabse badi kaamyabi he ,Jhagda Nekiyo'n ko ese hi moondta he jese ustra Baalo ko moondta he ,

❁ • Isliye jhagde se bachne ke liye Shaitan mardood se bachne Kï bahut zyada fikr Kï jaye ,

❁ •Jin cheezo se ghar me Shaitan aate he'n unse bacha jaye aur Jin Amaal se Shaitan se hifazat hoti he un amaal ka ahatmam kiya jaye ,

*❁ *•Isliye Ek Amal ye kare k Ghar me " Surah Baqrah " padh kar apne ouper aur poore kamre per Dam kar de ,

❁ •Hadees me aata he ," Qasam he us zaat Kï jiske Qabze me Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Kï jaan he k Shaitan us ghar me thehar nahi sakta jisme Surah Baqrah Kï tilawat Kï jaye ,"
( Kitabuzzuhad Varraqa'iq ,1/609 Hadees 740 )

❁ •Aur iske saath hi iska ahatmam kiya jaye k Ghar me Kisi Jaandaar Kï tasveer na ho ( Apni Apne Bachcho ya apne Walden Ya kisi ki bhi Photos bilkul na rakhe ,), Yaha'n tak k medicine ke dibbe ya Powder ke dibbe Ya Tail Kï Botel per Jo tasveer bani hoti he unko bhi kaat do ya un per koi chit chipka do ,

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                  PART— 28
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⊙ Miya Bivi me Muhabbat Ke Wazeefe ⊙

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☞ 1- Doosra Wazeefa - Qurane Kareem Kï Tilawat,

❁ • Ghar me Kasrat se Qurane Kareem Kï tilawat ka ahatmam kare, Hadees me aata he ,Jis ghar me Qurane Kareem Kï tilawat Kï jati he usme khairo barkat zyada hoti he ,Farishte usme haazir hote he'n aur Shayateen nikal jate he'n,

❁ • Aur Jis ghar me Tilawat na hi Wo ghar logo per tang ho jata he ,Usme khairo barkat kam hoti he ,Shayateen us ghar me apna thikana bana lete he'n ,Farishte waha se chale jate he'n,

❁ • isliye har Musalman Mard Aurat ko chahiye k ghar me Rozana Tilawat ka Khoob ahatmam kare ,

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⊙ Miya Bivi me Muhabbat Ke Wazeefe ⊙

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☞ 3-Teesra Wazeefa - Do Raka'at Namaz.

❁ • Shohar is baat ka ahatmam kare k ghar me Jab bhi Dakhil ho to Pehle Do Raka'at Padhe ,isi tarah Ghar se bahar Jana ho to Pehle Do Raka'at padh kar bahar nikle ,

❁ • Ek Shakhs ne Abdullah bin Rawaha Raziyallahu Anhu Kï wafat ke baad unki Beva se Nikaah kiya aur Farmaya, " Tum jaanti ho Maine Tumse Nikaah kyu kiya ? Maine Tumse Nikaah isliye kiya k tum mujhe Abdullah bin Rawaha Raziyallahu Anhu ke Amal ke bare me batlao k unke ghar me kya Ma'amulaat the ,"

❁ •To unki Ahliya Mohatrama ne farmaya, Jab Wo ghar se nikalne ka iraada karte to Do Raka'at Namaz padhte aur Jab ghar me Dakhil hote to Do Raka'at Namaz padhte aur is Amal per hamesha qaayam rahe ,"

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❁ • Hazrat Aayesha Raziyallahu Anhuma farmati he'n k ,Huzoor Akram Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Jab bhi ghar se nikle he'n Do Raka'at padh kar nikle he'n, "

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❁ •Lihaza Do Raka'at ka ahatmam har Mard aur Aurat ko karna chahiye, Farzo ke saath saath in nawafil ka ahatmam Khairo barkat ka sabab hoga ,

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⊙ Miya Bivi me Muhabbat Ke Wazeefe ⊙

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☞ 4-5-6- Wazeefe -Manzil , Aayate Kareema aur La havla Wala Quwwata Padhna,

❁ • 4- Manzil Padhne ka ahatmam kare aur isko padh kar ghar me dam kar de ,in Sha Allah Ta'ala isse bhi bada faayda hoga,

❁ • 5- Aayate Kareema 100 martaba Padh kar Muhabbat ke liye Dua maange ,

" Laa ilaaha illa anta Subhaanaka inni Kuntu Minaz Zalimeen ,"

❁ • 6- " Laa Havla Wala Quwwata illa billaahi ," 40 martaba Padh kar Dua maange ,

❁ • in tamaam wazaaif ke ahatmam se bahut faayda hoga ,Mustaqil pabandi se padhe aur Ahatmam se gunaho se bache aur doosro ko bachane Kï koshish kare ,

❁ •Koi esa kaam na hone paye jisse Allah Ta'ala naraaz ho jaye ,isliye k Allah Kï naraazgi ke saath Duniya v Akhirat Kï koi niyamat haasil nahi ho sakti,

❁ •Aur agar kabhi gunaah ho bhi jaye to Foran Tauba Astagfaar karke gunaho Kï maafi maangne ke liye ",Astagfaar Kï 70 Duae'n "khareed kar is kitaab me se Rozana Astagfaar padhe ,

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