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* Hazrat Sayyadna Aadam Alaihissalam Jannat me tashreef late he'n ,Baag e Jannat ka Chappa Chappa Anware ilaahi se mamoor , Altafe kibriyai ka qadam qadam per Zahoor ,Har taraf niyamato Kï Baarish ,Har taraf Anwaar Kï taabish

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* Iske bavjood bhi Apne Dil ka ek Kona Khaali paate he'n ,Kis cheez Kï kami mehsoos karte he'n ?

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* Bil akhir Nawazisho aur Bakhshisho Kï takmeel jab hi jaakar poori hui ,Aadam Alaihissalam ke Haq me Jannat jab hi haqeeqi ma'ane me Jannat Saabit hui Jab Mard ke liye Aurat Kï takhleeq hui aur Shohar ke liye Bivi Kï hasti saamne aayi ,

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* Ek khoobsurat mahakne wale fool ko dekh kar tabiyat me tarawat aur taazgi paida hoti he ,Kaliyo ke tabassum aur Chameli Kï mahak ,Hansmukh motiya aur Raat Kï Raani ke guncho Kï Atr aamez khushbu se tabiyat jhoom uthti he ,

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* Gulaab Kï khushbu aur khush numaai ,laala Kï Rangeeni ,Shabnam Kï khanki ,Shafaq Kï Surkhi ,Koyal Kï Kook ,Parindo ke nagme ,Maina ka chehchahana ,Titliyo ka albelapan ,

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* Garz ye k saare qudrat ke manzar dilo ko lubhate aur murda dilo me zindgi Kï umange paida karte he'n,

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* Magar Fitrat Kï ye saari ranginiya aur Chamanzaro ka ye saara Husn v nikhaar ek vajood ke bager Naaqis  v na mukammal he ,Wo vajood ya Wo qudrat ka shahkaar kon he ?

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* Wo Aurat Kï hasti he ,Jisme Fitrat Kï Saari Ra'anaiya'n Poori tarah samo di gayi he ,

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* Aurat ke vajood ke bager fitrat Kï ye saari gulkaariya aur uske saare nagme soone soone he'n ,Aurat ke bager Zindgi Veeran aur Be maza he ,Duniya Kï saari Rangeeni aur Dilchaspi Aurat hi ke dam se he ,
  
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* Aurat Zindgi me qism qism ke Rang bharne wali aur zindgi ko Rangeen v masarrat bakhsh banane wali he ,Aurat is Kaynaat ka Asli husn he ,Mard ke liye maaya taskeen aur Rahat v Araam ka sarmaya he ,Bazme Kaynaat Kï Shama Aurat hi ke Dam se Roshan he ,

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* Agar Aurat na ho to poora Chaman ujad Jaye, Aurat Baage insaniyat Kï Zeenat he ,iske bager Mard Kï Zindgi bilkul Sooni Sooni aur be maza si he ,

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*  Aurat hi ke Dam se zindgi Kï gaadi rawa'n rawa'n he ,Aurat hi ke Dam se zindgi Kï bahaar he ,Aurat hi ke vajood se zindgi ke khoobsurat Nagme foot te he'n ,Aur Mard logo me Zindgi ke naye walwale bedaar hote he'n ,
  
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* Aurat hi ki badolat Mard  har Aan aur har lamha masroof rehta he ,Jiski vajah se Tehjeeb v Tamaddun ke naye naye maidan khulte he'n aur nayi nayi Manzile Saamne aati he ,Aurat hi Mard Kï Zindgi nikhaarne wali aur uski Zindgi me gehma gehmi paida karne wali he ,
  
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* Allah Ta'ala ne Aurat ko husn v Jamaal aur Soz v gudaaz se nawaz he Jo Mard ke liye taskeen e Dil ka samaan aur uski Tanhaiyo ko door karke roohani sukoon ka zariya he ,Yahi uska dil lubha kar use sukoon v taazgi bakhshti he taki Wo musalsal koshish me barabar laga rage varna Zindgi Kï gaadi chalte rehne ke bajaye bilkul band ho kar reh jayegi ,
  
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* Ey Achchhi Aurat  ! TU chamakta Sitara he ,Chohdhvi ka chaand he ,TU behti nadi he ,TU Rang birange Foolo ka mehakta hua Baag he ,TU Kaynaat ka Husn he ,TU qudrate ilaahi Kï kaarigari ka be misaal namoona he ,TU haseen Rang he ,TU Muhabbat he ,TU wafa Kï Devi he ,TU Qurbani Kï nishani he ,

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* Ey Nek Bano ! Jaha'n Jaha'n tere qadam padte he'n Waha Waha TU roshni felati he ,TU khud Sukh se rehti he aur Doosro ko bhi Sukh v Chain ataa karti he ,TU har cheez ko Dilkash ,har kaam ko Dilchasp aur har muqaam ko gule gulzaar bana deti he ,TU gareeb se gareeb gharane ko bhi jannat numa bana deti he ,Tune hi is Duniya ko Jannat numa bana diya he ,

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* Ey Aurat Zaat ! TU Mardo Kï rehbari karne wali  he ,Mard ka Sukh tere qadmo me he ,Tu hi use gunaho Kï taraf maa'il karke tabahi me duboti he aur TU hi iski Kashti kinare laga sakti he ,Tere bager Mard Kï Zindgi ka fool be khushbu he ,Jab dukh aur takleef se iska Dil dooba jata he to tu hi Rehmat ka farishta ban kar uski madad ko aan pahunchti he ,
  
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* Ey Shohar Kï sakhtiyo per Sabr karne wali Aurat ! Tu Dozakh jese ghar ko Jannat me badal sakti he ,Tu chahe to Faqeer ko ek daulat mand aur Ameer ko ek muflis bana de ,Magroor logo Kï gardano ko jhuka dene Kï tujhme taaqat he ,

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* Tu Mard ka nisf  juzv ( half part ) he ,Uske Sukh dukh Kï shareeq he ,Tu uski izzat v waqaar he ,

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* Ey Aurat ! Tamaam mazhabi insaan ,Auliya ,Hukma ,Salateen ,Yaha tak k Allah Ta'ala ke Paigambar Alaihissalam tujhe Maa'n kehte he'n ,aur Teri hi god me palte he'n ,Tune hi unko laad diya pyar diya he ,isiliye to Allah Ta'ala ke buzurg aur bartar Nabi Alaihissalam ne tujhe ye tamga inayat kiya he k " Maa 'n ke qadmo tale jannat he ,"

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* Duniya Kï inteha apna ghar aur ghar Kï inteha Aurat ,,,,Jis ghar me nek Bivi ho to us ghar me Chaar chaand lag jate he'n ,Nek Bivi wala ghar Khushi aur muskurahato se hamesha labrez rehta he ,Jis tarah insano ke bager Duniya bekaar he ,isi tarah Nek Aurat ke bager ghar bekaar aur musibat khana he ,

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* Ey Nek Beti ! Tu ghar Kï Rani hokar ja ,Tu Apne is hukumati Takht per Maharani hokar Jalwa Afroz ho aur Mard ko Hukm de ,Wo Deen Kï Ri'ayat rakhte hue Teri har baat maanenge ,

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* Lekin Abhi Ruk ja ! Is iqtdaar Kï Baag dor Apne haath me lene se pehle tujhe Kuchh qurbaniya'n deni hongi ,Taaj Bahut haseen gulaab Kï tarah he,lekin is gulaab ko haasil karne ke liye tujhe kaanto ka maza bhi chakhna hoga ,Pehle Apne andar iski salahiyat aur istedaad paida karni padegi ,

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* Ey Nek Bivi ! TU insaniyat ke liye Ummeed ki ek Kiran he ,Tu Apne aapko Deendar ,Ba-Parda ,Paanch Waqt Kï Namaz ka ahatmam karne wali bana , Apne Mohalle Kï Aurto'n ko Deen per Amal karne aur usko poori Duniya me felane wali Bana ,
  
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* Allah Tujhe Nek banaye aur Shohar ke liye Duniya v Akhirat me Aankho Kï thandak banaye,,Aameen ,

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* Qurane Kareem ne ek mukhtasar Jumle me Shohar ke liye Bivi Kï paidaish ka Maqsad Bayan farma diya ,Agar Shadi ke baad Aurat is maqsas per poori utarti he to ye Shohar Duniya ka sabse zyada khush Qismat insaan he ,

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Surah Ar-Room, Aayat 21:

وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً

* Aur Allah Kï nishaniyo me se ye baat k usne tumhare liye tumhi me se Biviya'n banayi Taki tum unse sukoon haasil kar sabko aur usne tumhare darmiyan Aapas me Muhabbat aur Meharbani bhi rakh Dï ( taki tum apni Zindgi khush gawar bana sako ) ,

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* Maloom hua k Bivi raahat v sukoon ka Wo gahwara he jaha uske Shohar ko Muhabbat Kï pakiza chhaanv me uski khwahishat Kï taskeen milti he, Dil haraam kari se bachta he ,Ek ek Uzv ko zillat aur hikarat Kï gandgi se Nijaat milti he aur is tarah poora Badan tabahi aur halakat se bach jata he ,
  
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* Nek Bivi Allah Ta'ala Kï bahut hi badi ni'amat he,Mard ke liye Bivi Qudrat ka sabse zyada qeemti atiya he ,Jo uns v Muhabbat aur gamkhwari ke liye bheja gaya he ,

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* Din bhar khoon Pasina ek karke ek thaka hua Shakhs jab shaam ko ghar lot ta he to ek Wafa Sha'aar ,Samajhdar ,Khush mizaaj aur Shiri Zaban Bivi apni muskurahato se uska istaqbal karke uski saari thakawat aur gam door kar deti he ,

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* Wo Tabiyat me farhat v nishaat mehsoos karta he ,Nek Bivi use ek roohani sukoon aur taazgi bakhshti he ,Nek Bivi ke moonh se nikle hue foole kosar v tasneem se dhule hue do bol uske liye glucose, vitamin D se zyada quwwat v taaqat bakhsh saabit hote he'n ,

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* Allah Ta'ala har Dulhan ko Apne Shohar ke liye Sachchi Raahat ,haqqeqi Muhabbat aur Dili sukoon ka zariya banaye ,,,Aameen !

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* Allah Ta'ala ne Apne nek Bando Kï Sifaat me ek sift ye bayan farmayi he k Wo hamesha Apne liye Allah Ta'ala se Nek Seerat Biviya'n aur Nek Aulaad talab karte he'n,

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* Surah Al-Furqan, Aayat 74:

وَالَّذِينَ يَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا

* Aur ( Rehman ke Bande Wo he'n ) Jo kehte he'n , Ey hamare Rab  ! Hume hamari Biviyo'n aur Aulad Kï taraf se Aankho Kï thandak ataa farma aur Hume parhezgaar  logo ka imaam bana ,"

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* Goya Musalman ko Allah Kï taraf se ek talqeen he k Wo hamesha apni shareeqe hayaat ke intekhab me is pehlu ko zaroor saamne rakhna chahiye, Zahir he Nek Seerat hi Kï bina per Miya Bivi Khush v Khurram reh sakte he'n, Jab tak Nek nahi honge us waqt tak ek kese ho sakte he'n ?
  
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* Yahi he Sachchi aur haqeeqi khushi Jo Aankho ki thandak ban sakti he ,Agar Aurte'n Apne andar wo sifaat paida kar le Jo islam ne unko taleem Dï he ,to Shohar ka Dil jeet sakti he ,aur apni Muhabbat ka Sikka uske Dilo dimaag per jama sakti he ,

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* Aur Shohar bhi esi Sifaat wali Bivi ke liye jisse usko sukoon e dil mayassar ho ,Bahami ulfat haasil ho ,har qism Kï qurbani dene ke liye aur uski har jaa'iz farmaish ko poora karne Ke liye taiyaar ho jata he ,

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Note -* Har Musalsal Aurat ko chahiye k Wo Umr Kï kisi bhi manzil me bhi ho ,Ye Dua HAR farz Namaz ke baad Allah Ta'ala se Khoob Aazizi ke saath gidgida kar maange ,Khususan Walden ko chahiye k Balig ho Jane ke baad is Dua ke maangne ka ahatmam karwaye ,

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* " Duniya Kï Behtreen Daulat Nek Bivi he ,"
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* Huzoor Akram Sallallahu Alaihivasallam per jab pehli martaba Wahi naazil hui to qalbe Mubarak per us waqt qudrati becheni thi ,Chuki pehli wahi ka pehla tajurba aur Farishte se pehli baar saamna hua tha , us waqt Zaate Mubarak ko tasalli v taahfee dene wali ,Muhabbat bhare alfaz ke saath peshani Mubarak se ghabrahat ka paseena pochhne wali aur Risalat per sabse Pehle imaan lane wali Aapko yaad he Wo konsi hasti thi ?

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* Wo Rafeeqa e Zindgi ,Shareeqe Khushi v Gam Hazrat Khadijatul Kubra Raziyallahu Anhuma Kï hasti thi ,

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* isi tarah jis waqt Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Duniya se tashreef le ja rahe he'n ,Ummat per isse badh kar qayamat khez ghadi ,qayamat tak aur konsi aa sakti he ,?

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* Sahaba Kiraam Raziyallahu Anhum ek se badh kar ek Aashiqe Rasool Sainkdo Kï tadaad me mojood he'n ,lekin tareekh Kï Seerat Kï zaban se Shahadat lijiye k ayn us waqt JIS khush naseeb ke liye muqaddar tha k Sahare aur Takiye ka kaam de ?

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* Azeezo aur Rafeeqo me se kisi Mard ke nahi balki Shareeqe hayaat Hazrat Aayesha Siddiqa  Raziyallahu Anhuma ke ye chamakte naseeb the ,

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* Ye he Bivi Kï manzilat v martaba se mutalliq Duniya ki sabse badi hasti Kï Zindgi se Milne wala sabaq ,ye he islam me Bivi ka maqaam ,Aurat ki qadar islam me aapne dekhi ? Bivi ka martaba Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ke nazdeek Aapne pehchana ? Hai koi is muqabil Kï cheez ,Aurat ke lafzi hamdardo ke daftare Amal me ? Nahi tehzeeb ke daavedaro ke falsafo me ,Shana ba Shana v musawaat ke Daavedaro Kï amali Zindgi me ?
  
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✿●•· Ummahatul Momineen Kï Zindgi ,
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* Allah Ta'ala ka Shukr he jisne Ummul Momineen Sayyadna Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma Kï gharelu Zindgi ko Duniya Kï tamaam Aurto'n ke liye Namoona bana diya ,Agarche Aurto'n ko Nabuwat nahi milti lekin agar Aurat ye chahe k mai Aurat hote hue kis tarah Zindgi guzaru aur mere liye Aurat hi kis tarah namoona ho to Allah Ta'ala ne iska bhi intezam farma diya ,

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* Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ke ghar me rehne waliyo Azwaaj Mutaharaat ,Ummahatul Momineen Raziyallahu Anhum Kï Zindgiyo ko rehti Duniya tak Kï Aurto'n ke liye namoona bana diya k musalman Aurte'n in paak v Mubarak Aurto'n Kï Zindgiyo se sabaq seekhe aur Apni Zindgi ko unki Zindgi Kï tarah banane Kï koshish kare ,

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* 24 ghante Kï Zindgi ke har kaam me ye soche k is kaam ko unhone kis tarah kiya ,? Unke makanaat kese the ? Unka khana pina kesa tha ?unka Shohar ke saath bartaav kesa tha ? Vagera vagera ,,,
  
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╟❥ Next Post - 11 , Soon in Sha Allah ,
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    Tohfa E Dulhan , 41

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