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* Hazrat Sayyadna Aadam Alaihissalam Jannat me tashreef late he'n ,Baag e Jannat ka Chappa Chappa Anware ilaahi se mamoor , Altafe kibriyai ka qadam qadam per Zahoor ,Har taraf niyamato Kï Baarish ,Har taraf Anwaar Kï taabish
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* Iske bavjood bhi Apne Dil ka ek Kona Khaali paate he'n ,Kis cheez Kï kami mehsoos karte he'n ?
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* Bil akhir Nawazisho aur Bakhshisho Kï takmeel jab hi jaakar poori hui ,Aadam Alaihissalam ke Haq me Jannat jab hi haqeeqi ma'ane me Jannat Saabit hui Jab Mard ke liye Aurat Kï takhleeq hui aur Shohar ke liye Bivi Kï hasti saamne aayi ,
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* Ek khoobsurat mahakne wale fool ko dekh kar tabiyat me tarawat aur taazgi paida hoti he ,Kaliyo ke tabassum aur Chameli Kï mahak ,Hansmukh motiya aur Raat Kï Raani ke guncho Kï Atr aamez khushbu se tabiyat jhoom uthti he ,
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* Gulaab Kï khushbu aur khush numaai ,laala Kï Rangeeni ,Shabnam Kï khanki ,Shafaq Kï Surkhi ,Koyal Kï Kook ,Parindo ke nagme ,Maina ka chehchahana ,Titliyo ka albelapan ,
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* Garz ye k saare qudrat ke manzar dilo ko lubhate aur murda dilo me zindgi Kï umange paida karte he'n,
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* Magar Fitrat Kï ye saari ranginiya aur Chamanzaro ka ye saara Husn v nikhaar ek vajood ke bager Naaqis v na mukammal he ,Wo vajood ya Wo qudrat ka shahkaar kon he ?
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* Wo Aurat Kï hasti he ,Jisme Fitrat Kï Saari Ra'anaiya'n Poori tarah samo di gayi he ,
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* Aurat ke vajood ke bager fitrat Kï ye saari gulkaariya aur uske saare nagme soone soone he'n ,Aurat ke bager Zindgi Veeran aur Be maza he ,Duniya Kï saari Rangeeni aur Dilchaspi Aurat hi ke dam se he ,
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* Aurat Zindgi me qism qism ke Rang bharne wali aur zindgi ko Rangeen v masarrat bakhsh banane wali he ,Aurat is Kaynaat ka Asli husn he ,Mard ke liye maaya taskeen aur Rahat v Araam ka sarmaya he ,Bazme Kaynaat Kï Shama Aurat hi ke Dam se Roshan he ,
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* Agar Aurat na ho to poora Chaman ujad Jaye, Aurat Baage insaniyat Kï Zeenat he ,iske bager Mard Kï Zindgi bilkul Sooni Sooni aur be maza si he ,
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* Aurat hi ke Dam se zindgi Kï gaadi rawa'n rawa'n he ,Aurat hi ke Dam se zindgi Kï bahaar he ,Aurat hi ke vajood se zindgi ke khoobsurat Nagme foot te he'n ,Aur Mard logo me Zindgi ke naye walwale bedaar hote he'n ,
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* Aurat hi ki badolat Mard har Aan aur har lamha masroof rehta he ,Jiski vajah se Tehjeeb v Tamaddun ke naye naye maidan khulte he'n aur nayi nayi Manzile Saamne aati he ,Aurat hi Mard Kï Zindgi nikhaarne wali aur uski Zindgi me gehma gehmi paida karne wali he ,
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* Allah Ta'ala ne Aurat ko husn v Jamaal aur Soz v gudaaz se nawaz he Jo Mard ke liye taskeen e Dil ka samaan aur uski Tanhaiyo ko door karke roohani sukoon ka zariya he ,Yahi uska dil lubha kar use sukoon v taazgi bakhshti he taki Wo musalsal koshish me barabar laga rage varna Zindgi Kï gaadi chalte rehne ke bajaye bilkul band ho kar reh jayegi ,
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* Ey Achchhi Aurat ! TU chamakta Sitara he ,Chohdhvi ka chaand he ,TU behti nadi he ,TU Rang birange Foolo ka mehakta hua Baag he ,TU Kaynaat ka Husn he ,TU qudrate ilaahi Kï kaarigari ka be misaal namoona he ,TU haseen Rang he ,TU Muhabbat he ,TU wafa Kï Devi he ,TU Qurbani Kï nishani he ,
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* Ey Nek Bano ! Jaha'n Jaha'n tere qadam padte he'n Waha Waha TU roshni felati he ,TU khud Sukh se rehti he aur Doosro ko bhi Sukh v Chain ataa karti he ,TU har cheez ko Dilkash ,har kaam ko Dilchasp aur har muqaam ko gule gulzaar bana deti he ,TU gareeb se gareeb gharane ko bhi jannat numa bana deti he ,Tune hi is Duniya ko Jannat numa bana diya he ,
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* Ey Aurat Zaat ! TU Mardo Kï rehbari karne wali he ,Mard ka Sukh tere qadmo me he ,Tu hi use gunaho Kï taraf maa'il karke tabahi me duboti he aur TU hi iski Kashti kinare laga sakti he ,Tere bager Mard Kï Zindgi ka fool be khushbu he ,Jab dukh aur takleef se iska Dil dooba jata he to tu hi Rehmat ka farishta ban kar uski madad ko aan pahunchti he ,
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* Ey Shohar Kï sakhtiyo per Sabr karne wali Aurat ! Tu Dozakh jese ghar ko Jannat me badal sakti he ,Tu chahe to Faqeer ko ek daulat mand aur Ameer ko ek muflis bana de ,Magroor logo Kï gardano ko jhuka dene Kï tujhme taaqat he ,
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* Tu Mard ka nisf juzv ( half part ) he ,Uske Sukh dukh Kï shareeq he ,Tu uski izzat v waqaar he ,
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* Ey Aurat ! Tamaam mazhabi insaan ,Auliya ,Hukma ,Salateen ,Yaha tak k Allah Ta'ala ke Paigambar Alaihissalam tujhe Maa'n kehte he'n ,aur Teri hi god me palte he'n ,Tune hi unko laad diya pyar diya he ,isiliye to Allah Ta'ala ke buzurg aur bartar Nabi Alaihissalam ne tujhe ye tamga inayat kiya he k " Maa 'n ke qadmo tale jannat he ,"
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* Duniya Kï inteha apna ghar aur ghar Kï inteha Aurat ,,,,Jis ghar me nek Bivi ho to us ghar me Chaar chaand lag jate he'n ,Nek Bivi wala ghar Khushi aur muskurahato se hamesha labrez rehta he ,Jis tarah insano ke bager Duniya bekaar he ,isi tarah Nek Aurat ke bager ghar bekaar aur musibat khana he ,
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* Ey Nek Beti ! Tu ghar Kï Rani hokar ja ,Tu Apne is hukumati Takht per Maharani hokar Jalwa Afroz ho aur Mard ko Hukm de ,Wo Deen Kï Ri'ayat rakhte hue Teri har baat maanenge ,
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* Lekin Abhi Ruk ja ! Is iqtdaar Kï Baag dor Apne haath me lene se pehle tujhe Kuchh qurbaniya'n deni hongi ,Taaj Bahut haseen gulaab Kï tarah he,lekin is gulaab ko haasil karne ke liye tujhe kaanto ka maza bhi chakhna hoga ,Pehle Apne andar iski salahiyat aur istedaad paida karni padegi ,
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* Ey Nek Bivi ! TU insaniyat ke liye Ummeed ki ek Kiran he ,Tu Apne aapko Deendar ,Ba-Parda ,Paanch Waqt Kï Namaz ka ahatmam karne wali bana , Apne Mohalle Kï Aurto'n ko Deen per Amal karne aur usko poori Duniya me felane wali Bana ,
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* Allah Tujhe Nek banaye aur Shohar ke liye Duniya v Akhirat me Aankho Kï thandak banaye,,Aameen ,
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* Qurane Kareem ne ek mukhtasar Jumle me Shohar ke liye Bivi Kï paidaish ka Maqsad Bayan farma diya ,Agar Shadi ke baad Aurat is maqsas per poori utarti he to ye Shohar Duniya ka sabse zyada khush Qismat insaan he ,
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Surah Ar-Room, Aayat 21:
وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً
* Aur Allah Kï nishaniyo me se ye baat k usne tumhare liye tumhi me se Biviya'n banayi Taki tum unse sukoon haasil kar sabko aur usne tumhare darmiyan Aapas me Muhabbat aur Meharbani bhi rakh Dï ( taki tum apni Zindgi khush gawar bana sako ) ,
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* Maloom hua k Bivi raahat v sukoon ka Wo gahwara he jaha uske Shohar ko Muhabbat Kï pakiza chhaanv me uski khwahishat Kï taskeen milti he, Dil haraam kari se bachta he ,Ek ek Uzv ko zillat aur hikarat Kï gandgi se Nijaat milti he aur is tarah poora Badan tabahi aur halakat se bach jata he ,
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* Nek Bivi Allah Ta'ala Kï bahut hi badi ni'amat he,Mard ke liye Bivi Qudrat ka sabse zyada qeemti atiya he ,Jo uns v Muhabbat aur gamkhwari ke liye bheja gaya he ,
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* Din bhar khoon Pasina ek karke ek thaka hua Shakhs jab shaam ko ghar lot ta he to ek Wafa Sha'aar ,Samajhdar ,Khush mizaaj aur Shiri Zaban Bivi apni muskurahato se uska istaqbal karke uski saari thakawat aur gam door kar deti he ,
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* Wo Tabiyat me farhat v nishaat mehsoos karta he ,Nek Bivi use ek roohani sukoon aur taazgi bakhshti he ,Nek Bivi ke moonh se nikle hue foole kosar v tasneem se dhule hue do bol uske liye glucose, vitamin D se zyada quwwat v taaqat bakhsh saabit hote he'n ,
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* Allah Ta'ala har Dulhan ko Apne Shohar ke liye Sachchi Raahat ,haqqeqi Muhabbat aur Dili sukoon ka zariya banaye ,,,Aameen !
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* Allah Ta'ala ne Apne nek Bando Kï Sifaat me ek sift ye bayan farmayi he k Wo hamesha Apne liye Allah Ta'ala se Nek Seerat Biviya'n aur Nek Aulaad talab karte he'n,
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* Surah Al-Furqan, Aayat 74:
وَالَّذِينَ يَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
* Aur ( Rehman ke Bande Wo he'n ) Jo kehte he'n , Ey hamare Rab ! Hume hamari Biviyo'n aur Aulad Kï taraf se Aankho Kï thandak ataa farma aur Hume parhezgaar logo ka imaam bana ,"
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* Goya Musalman ko Allah Kï taraf se ek talqeen he k Wo hamesha apni shareeqe hayaat ke intekhab me is pehlu ko zaroor saamne rakhna chahiye, Zahir he Nek Seerat hi Kï bina per Miya Bivi Khush v Khurram reh sakte he'n, Jab tak Nek nahi honge us waqt tak ek kese ho sakte he'n ?
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* Yahi he Sachchi aur haqeeqi khushi Jo Aankho ki thandak ban sakti he ,Agar Aurte'n Apne andar wo sifaat paida kar le Jo islam ne unko taleem Dï he ,to Shohar ka Dil jeet sakti he ,aur apni Muhabbat ka Sikka uske Dilo dimaag per jama sakti he ,
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* Aur Shohar bhi esi Sifaat wali Bivi ke liye jisse usko sukoon e dil mayassar ho ,Bahami ulfat haasil ho ,har qism Kï qurbani dene ke liye aur uski har jaa'iz farmaish ko poora karne Ke liye taiyaar ho jata he ,
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Note -* Har Musalsal Aurat ko chahiye k Wo Umr Kï kisi bhi manzil me bhi ho ,Ye Dua HAR farz Namaz ke baad Allah Ta'ala se Khoob Aazizi ke saath gidgida kar maange ,Khususan Walden ko chahiye k Balig ho Jane ke baad is Dua ke maangne ka ahatmam karwaye ,
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* " Duniya Kï Behtreen Daulat Nek Bivi he ,"
( Muslim Sharif, 1469 )
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* Huzoor Akram Sallallahu Alaihivasallam per jab pehli martaba Wahi naazil hui to qalbe Mubarak per us waqt qudrati becheni thi ,Chuki pehli wahi ka pehla tajurba aur Farishte se pehli baar saamna hua tha , us waqt Zaate Mubarak ko tasalli v taahfee dene wali ,Muhabbat bhare alfaz ke saath peshani Mubarak se ghabrahat ka paseena pochhne wali aur Risalat per sabse Pehle imaan lane wali Aapko yaad he Wo konsi hasti thi ?
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* Wo Rafeeqa e Zindgi ,Shareeqe Khushi v Gam Hazrat Khadijatul Kubra Raziyallahu Anhuma Kï hasti thi ,
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* isi tarah jis waqt Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Duniya se tashreef le ja rahe he'n ,Ummat per isse badh kar qayamat khez ghadi ,qayamat tak aur konsi aa sakti he ,?
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* Sahaba Kiraam Raziyallahu Anhum ek se badh kar ek Aashiqe Rasool Sainkdo Kï tadaad me mojood he'n ,lekin tareekh Kï Seerat Kï zaban se Shahadat lijiye k ayn us waqt JIS khush naseeb ke liye muqaddar tha k Sahare aur Takiye ka kaam de ?
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* Azeezo aur Rafeeqo me se kisi Mard ke nahi balki Shareeqe hayaat Hazrat Aayesha Siddiqa Raziyallahu Anhuma ke ye chamakte naseeb the ,
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* Ye he Bivi Kï manzilat v martaba se mutalliq Duniya ki sabse badi hasti Kï Zindgi se Milne wala sabaq ,ye he islam me Bivi ka maqaam ,Aurat ki qadar islam me aapne dekhi ? Bivi ka martaba Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ke nazdeek Aapne pehchana ? Hai koi is muqabil Kï cheez ,Aurat ke lafzi hamdardo ke daftare Amal me ? Nahi tehzeeb ke daavedaro ke falsafo me ,Shana ba Shana v musawaat ke Daavedaro Kï amali Zindgi me ?
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* Allah Ta'ala ka Shukr he jisne Ummul Momineen Sayyadna Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma Kï gharelu Zindgi ko Duniya Kï tamaam Aurto'n ke liye Namoona bana diya ,Agarche Aurto'n ko Nabuwat nahi milti lekin agar Aurat ye chahe k mai Aurat hote hue kis tarah Zindgi guzaru aur mere liye Aurat hi kis tarah namoona ho to Allah Ta'ala ne iska bhi intezam farma diya ,
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* Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ke ghar me rehne waliyo Azwaaj Mutaharaat ,Ummahatul Momineen Raziyallahu Anhum Kï Zindgiyo ko rehti Duniya tak Kï Aurto'n ke liye namoona bana diya k musalman Aurte'n in paak v Mubarak Aurto'n Kï Zindgiyo se sabaq seekhe aur Apni Zindgi ko unki Zindgi Kï tarah banane Kï koshish kare ,
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* 24 ghante Kï Zindgi ke har kaam me ye soche k is kaam ko unhone kis tarah kiya ,? Unke makanaat kese the ? Unka khana pina kesa tha ?unka Shohar ke saath bartaav kesa tha ? Vagera vagera ,,,
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* Zara in ( Hazrat Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma ke ) alfaz per gor Kijiye ,
" Allah Ta'ala hargiz Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ka saath na chhodega ,Aap Rishtedaro se milaap rakhte he'n ,Be kas v be sahara logo Kï madad karte he'n, Faqeero aur gareebo ke khair khwah he'n ,Mehman nawazi karte he'n, musibat zada logo Kï madad karte he'n ,"
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* Ye Sifaat Allah ko pasand he'n ,esi Sifaat walo ko Allah Ta'ala be yaaro madadgar kese chhod sakte he'n ,?
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* Doosre lihaaz se Aap gor kare to ek Aurat bhi Apne Shohar me ye Sifaat asaani se paida karwa sakti he ,Agar Aurat Apne Rishtedaro ke uyoob shohar ko na bataye ,khususan ,meri Nanad ,Saas ,Devrani ,Jethani ne mere saath ye kiya ,mere Bachcho ke saath unke Bachcho ne ye kiya ,____',''''
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* Aur unki khushi gami ke moqe per Shohar ko Targeeb de k,
" Tum jao unka saath do ,Agar koi takleef dah baat unki taraf se pahunche to maaf kar do ,agar tumhare zariye unko takleef pahunche to unse maaf karwao ,
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* is tarah Rishtedaro se milaap paida karne per Aap Apne Shohar se Amal karwa sakti he'n ,Kisi tarah samjha bujhakar Aapas ke ikhtilaaf door karwa sakti he'n ,Dilo ka mail aur Aapas ka keena v ranjish door karne ka Sabun Allah ne Aapko diya he ,is sabun ke zariye aap Dilo ke mail dho sakti he'n aur Aapas ke ikhtilaf mitane per Allah Ta'ala Aapko Duniya v Akhirat me be shumar inamaat se zaroor ba zaroor nawazega ,
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* isi tarah Aap Apne Shohar ke zariye Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Kï doosri Sunnat bhi zinda karwa sakti he'n, Wo is tarah k Apne ghar ka kharcha karke avvalan Jo gareeb Rishtedar he'n unki madad karwa kar ye sawab haasil kar sakti he'n ,fir Jo bhi gareeb ,mohtaaj ,beva ,yateem aur miskeen ho unki madad karwa sakti he'n,
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* isi tarah mehman nawazi bhi karwa sakti he'n, khususan Aapke ghar me Jo bhi mehman Aurat aaye use khali haath na bheje ,kam se kam paani ka saada gilaas hi pila dijiye ,Muskurahat wale Chehre se uska istaqbal hi kar lijiye ,use koi deen Kï baat sikha dijiye, Usko deen per chalne aur felane per Raazi kar lijiye,
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* Agar Shohar ke mehman aaye to unki mehman nawazi bahut kushada dili ,farakhi aur isaar se kare ,Agar mehman koi Allah ka Nek banda ho to uski mehmani ko mojibe khair v barkat samajhna chahiye ,yu to kisi bhi mehman se Dil tang na hona chahiye, Huzoor Akram Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne to Kaafir ko bhi mehman banaya he ,
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* Lihaza Mehman ko musibat na samjhe ,agarche chhote bachcho ko sambhalna ,ghar Kï safaai suthrai karna aur fir mehman ke liye khana pakana ,unki khatir tawazo karna ye kaam mushkil to he'n lekin khalis Allah ko Raazi karne ke liye kiye jaye to iska bahut bada ajro sawab he aur maal me barkat bhi hoti he , Duae'n bhi milti he'n ,
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* Shohar Kï Aadat nahi to unko amaada kare k apni isteta'at nek logo ko ghar bula kar khana khilaye , khud aur ghar walo ko bila vajah mashakkat me na pade balki Jo bhi Asaani se us waqt muhayya ho sake khila de ,
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* Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne ek Sift Hazrat Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma Kï ye Bayan farmayi k ," Unhone us waqt meri maal ke saath khair khwahi Kï jab logo ne mujhe Mehroomi rakha tha ,"
( Yani meri us waqt Madad Kï jab logo me mera koi madadgar na tha ),
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* insaan ko sabse zyada Muhabbat Maal se hoti he aur Maal jis per kharch kiya jata he Wo Maal se bhi zyada Mehboob hota he ,
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* Agar Aapke Shohar ko Aapke Maal Kï Deen ke kisi taqaze ke liye zarurat padhe ya Kisi Duniyavi jaa'iz Haajat ke liye zarurat pade to Aap us maal ko Shohar per kharch karne Kï Sa'adat ko Fakhr samjhe ,isme bilkul kanjoosi na kare ,
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* Jo Aapne Apne khaliq aur Maalik ko Raazi karne ke liye Shohar per maal kharch kiya to iska poora poora Ajr qayamat ke Din aapko milega ,
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* Agar Wo Maal Deen ke felane ke liye, Kaafiro ko islam me lane ke liye, Allah ke hukmo aur Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ke tareeqo ko poori Duniya me rivaaj dene ke liye, gareebo aur miskeeno Kï madad karne ke liye lag gaya to Aapko ye Sa'adat mili k Aap bhi isi nisbat me Hazrat Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma ke saath Shamil ho gayi aur kal qayamat ke Din jab Allah Ta'ala un tamaam Ambiya Alaihissalam Kï Biviyo'n ko ajr denge to Aapko bhi un khush naseeb Aurto'n ke jhande tale kahi na kahi jagah mil hi jayegi ,( Agar Aapne doosre gunaho se bachne ka ahatmam kiya ) in Sha Allah Ta'ala ,
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* Aap Shohar per Fida hona to Sikhe ,Aap unko ita'at aur Muhabbat to dijiye, Aap Apne Dil me unki Qadar to PAIDA Kijiye, Unki mansha v mizaaj ko samajhne Kï koshish to Kijiye, Har waqt unse cheezo Kï farmaish ke bajaye unki Muhabbat bhari nigaho Kï tamanna bhi to Kijiye,
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* Fir Kesa hi Bad Mizaaj Shohar kyu na ho ,Aapke kisi kaam Kï qadar na karta ho ,lekin Aapke is ikhlaas v Muhabbat aur Duao'n se Wo zaroor ba zaroor Aapki taraf mutavajjah hoga ,Aapke ahsaas Kï qadar karega ,balki apni pichhli kotahiyo per sharminda hoga ,aur na sirf Zindgi me balki Aapki maut ke baad bhi Aapki in khoobiyo Kï yaade hamesha usko rulayegi ,
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* Ye bhi ek Musalman Aurat Kï Zimmedari he k ghar walo ka mizaaj esa banaye k har kaam mashware se ho ,chahe Deen ka kaam ho ya Duniya hi ka koi jaa'iz Kaam ,,
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* Hazrat Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ko Sahi Mashware diya karti thi k har mushkil moqe per Aapki diljoyi ho jati ,
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* Musalman Aurate'n bhi ye sawab haasil kar sakti he'n k Apne Shohar ko har moqe per Sahi mashwara de ,Jab Wo kisi kaam me pareshan ho ya Aapse mashwara maange to khoob soch samajh kar Allah Ta'ala se Dua maang kar mashwara de ,
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* Lekin agar maamla aham aur bada ho jaha apni soch na pahunch sake to itminaan se Apne khandan hi ke Nek samajjhdar ya koi bhi Deendar aur samajhdar ho unki taraf Shohar Kï rehnumayi kare ,
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* Jese Hazrat Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma akheer me Apne Chacha ke Ladke ( Warqa bin Nofil Jo pichhli shariyato ke jaanne wale the) ke paas le gayi k unse mashwara ke zariye madad haasil kare ,Jitna Khud mashwara de sakti thi de diya baqi ke liye Apne se zyada samajhdar aur bade ke paas le gayi ,
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* isi tarah Suleh Hudebiya ke moqe per Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne jab Sar mundwane ka Hukm diya to Sahaba Kiraam gam Kï vajah se iske liye taiyar na hue to Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne Hazrat Umme Salma Raziyallahu Anhuma se mashwara kiya to unhone farmaya ,Aap khud halaaq ( Baal kaatne wale ) ko bula kar Apne Baal mundwane shuru kar dijiye ,to Sahaba Kiraam bhi isi tarah karne lag jayenge ,"
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* Lihaza Aaj Kï Musalman Aurat ko bhi chahiye k Jis tarah pehle guzri hui Deendar Aurto'n ne Apne Shoharo ko Deen ke felane ke liye waqt waqt pet mashware diye wese hi Aap bhi Apne Shoharo ko Deen ke Duniya me rivaaj pane ke liye khoob soch samajh kar Sahi mashwara de iske saath saath Duniyavi umoor me bhi mashware se har kaam karne Kï aadat banaye ,
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* Albatta ye zaroori nahi k Bivi ke Mashware per Shohar Amal bhi kare Agar Shohar ne Amal na kiya to Bivi ko chahiye k is baat per bura na maane aur Shohar per naraazgi ka izhaar na kare ,
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* Jab Quresh ne islam ko Khatm karne Kï ye tadbeer Sochi k Huzoor Sallallahu Alaihivasallam aur Unke khandan ko ek Ghaanti me Qaid kiya jaye, Chunache majburan Abu Talib ne tamaam khandan ke saath Sho'ab abi Talib me panaah li ,to Hazrat Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma bhi saath aayi ,
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* Ye zamana esa sakht tha k Babool ke patte kha kha kar guzara kiya ,Bachche bhook se bil bilate the, Bachcho ke Rone Kï awaaze door door tak jati thi , Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam is haal me bhi apni Qom me DAWAT Tablig ka fariza din raat anjaam dete ,
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* Aur Banu Haashim aur Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma sabr aur ajr Kï Ummeed ke saath in tamaam takleefo ko bardasht karti ,Kabhi zaban se uff na kaha aur na ye kaha k Aapki Tablig Kï vajah se ye musibat aayi he ,hum kese sabr kare ,kese bardasht kare ?
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* Ek do maah nahi balki Shohar ke saath Taqriban Saal ka arsa isi tarah guzara ,Allah Ta'ala hum sabki taraf se Sayyadna Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma ko is per Ajro Azeem ataa farmaye k unhone Deen ko felane aur hum tak islam ko pahunchane Kï khatir Apne Shohar Aap Hazrat Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ke saath un takleefo ko bardasht kiya aur Sabr farmaya ,,Aameen
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* Lihaza agar kisi vajah se Ghar me koi takleef ya pareshani aa jaye to Bivi ko chahiye k Shohar ke saath khud bhi sabr karte hue us pareshani v gam ko bardasht kare ,Ye na ho k Sukh me unka saath de aur Dukh pareshani me saath chhor de ,
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* Ek Musalman Aurat ke liye Jo is per Yaqeen rakhti he k Jo kuchh hota he Allah Ta'ala hi ke Hukm se hota he ,Musibat BHI Raahat bhi USI ke Hukm se aati he ,Nafa nuqsaan USI Allah ke Hukm se hota he ,,To Bivi ko chahiye k harfe shikayat zaban per na laye ,
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* Kisi gair se bhi shikayat na kare ,Balki har haal me Sabr karti rahe , Khud bhi Duae'n maange aur Bachcho se bhi Duae'n mangwa kar musibat door karwaye ,
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* Hazrat Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma Quresh Kï Bahut Muazziz Khatoon hone ke saath saath Maal aur Daulat ke lihaaz se bhi mashoor thi ,Lekin iske bavjood Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Kï khidmat khud Apne haath se anjaam deti thi ,
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* Maulana Sayyad Salman Nadvi Reh. Seerate Ayesha Raziyallahu Anhuma me farmate he'n, " Ghar me agarche Khadima mojood thi ,Lekin Hazrat Aayesha Raziyallahu Anhuma Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ka kaam khud Apne haath se anjaam deti thi, Joa khud peesti thi ,Aata khud goondti thi ,Khana khud pakati thi ,Bistar Apne haath se bichhati thi ,Vazu ka paani khud laa kar deti thi,
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* Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ke Sar me Apne haath se Kangha karti thi ,Jism Mubarak per Atr mal deti thi, Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ke Kapde Apne haath se dhoti thi ,Sote waqt Miswaak aur Pani Sirhane rakhti thi ,Miswaak ko safaai Kï garz se dhoya karti thi ,
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* Ghar me koi Mehman aata to Mehman Kï khidmat anjaam deti thi ,
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* Ye he Misaali Bivi Kï zimmedari k ghar ke kaam khud kare aur Shohar Kï khidmat ko apni Sa'adat samjhe aur usme ye niyat kare k Shohar Kï khidmat se Shohar ka Haq ada hoga aur Allah Ta'ala isse Raazi ho jayenge to ye bhi Deen aur ibaadat ban jayega ,
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* Lekin iska matlab ye bhi nahi k Shohar aur Bachcho Kï khidmat me is tarah Lage k na nawafil ,na tasbihaat ,balki kai martaba Namaz me bhi gaflat ho ,
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* Hazrat Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Kï is qadar itteba karne wali thi k jab Namaze Panjgana Farz na thi ,Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam nawafil padha karte the to Hazrat Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma bhi Aapke saath Nawafil me shirkat karti thi ,
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* Ye he Shohar Kï Sachchi itteba k Jese Shohar Kï mansha ho wesi rahe ,Shara'i zaabto ke tahat Shohar Bivi ko jesa dekhna chahta he wesi hi ban kar rahe ,Yahi nasihat he sab ladkiyo ko pehli Musalman Khatoon Kï ,
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* Ey Meri Pyari Behan ! Agar aap bhi apni Seerat Hazrat Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma ke tarz per dhaal logi aur Shohar Kï mukammal ita'at ( Jiski Shariyat ne ijazat Dï he ) karogi to fir dekhna Allah Ta'ala aapse Raazi ho jayenge aur Jab Allah Raazi ho jayenge to Saari bigdiya ban jayengi ,Saari pareshaniya khatm ho jayengi ,in Sha Allah,
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* Hazrat Qari Muhammad Tayyab Sahab Reh. ne Farmaya ,:- Aurat ke zimme ita'at waajib he ,Aurat ka kaam ye he k Kaamil ita'at ka bartaav kare aur Apne khilaf bhi ho to Sunne Kï aadat daale ,Ye na ho k Shohar ne mizaaj ke khilaf baat kahi aur uski naak chadi ,ek kya Chaar jawab dene ko taiyaar ,isse be mehri ( bad mazgi ) paida ho jati he ,
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* Agar Bivi ye chahti he k mera Shohar bilkul mere kehne me rahe ,Mera gulaam ban jaye to yaad rakho ! Gulaam banana gulaam banne se hota he ,Pehle khud Amlan Baandi ban kar dikhao ,Wo khud ba khud gulaam ban jayega ,
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* Aurat ka Farz he k Wo 24 ghante is fikr me rahe k Mera Shohar kin cheezo se NA khush hota he ,Kin baato se ,Kis Libaas se ,Kis kaam se usko takleef pahunchti he ,? Wo bilkul na kare ,na Shohar ke saamne ,na uski gair mojoodgi me ,
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* Jin Cheezo se Shohar khush hota he usko Akhtyar kare ,Jis Libaas se Shohar khush hota he Wo pehne ,Jis Bol se khush hota he us Bol ko bole ,Jis qism ke Khane SE khush hota he wesa pakaye ,Jis jagah Jane se na khush hota he Waha na Jaye taki uska Dil khush ho jaye aur Uski Aankho Kï thandak ban jaye ,
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* Shohar Baaz cheezo ko pasand karta he aur Baaz ko na-pasand ,Nek Bivi Kï shaan ye honi chahiye k uske jazbaat v khayalaat ke muwafiq hone Kï poori poori koshish kare ,Sivaye un cheezo ke Jinko Allah aur uske Rasool Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne mana farmaya he,
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* Balki koshish kare k uski zaban se nikalne se pehle un kaamo ko kar le Jisko Wo chahta he ,Khud Apne uthne bethne ,rehne sehne me is tarah rahe jese wo pasand karta he ,Kyuki Shohar ke Dil me Apne liye hamesha Kï Muhabbat paida karne ke liye ye sabse badi aur aham sifat he ,
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* isliye k Husno Jamaal chand Dino ka mehmaan hota he , Kitni hi Haseen Aurat ho ,lekin Chand Dino baad Shohar ka Dil uske Husn se bhar jata he ,lekin Wo Aurat maut ke baad bhi Tareef Kï Mustahiq he Jo Mard ke mizaaj ke muwafiq ban jaye ,
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* Yaad Rakhiye ! Nikaah ke 2 bol bolne ke baad ab na Apne liye khana ,na sona ,na Apne liye Pehanna balki sab kuchh Apne Sar ke Taaj ke liye ,Apne Mehboob ke liye ho to Fir jese Hazrat Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma ko Saato Asmaan ke ouper se Allah Kï taraf se Salaam aaya to Aapke ghar me bhi in Sha Allah Zaroor ba zaroor Rabbul Aalameen Kï taraf se salaamti ,Barkate ,aur Rehmate naazil hongi ,Ghar jannat ka namoona ban jayega ,
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✿●•· Nek Bivi Kï Neki Bhulaai nahi Ja Sakti ,
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* Misl Mashhoor he k " Neki aur Bhalaai karne wala Bhalaai karke bhool sakta he ,Lekin jiske saath Neki Kï jati he ,Wo nahi bhoola karta ," aur Ye k " JIS per Ahsaan kar lo Wo Tumhara gulaam ban jayega ,"
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* Lihaza Nek Bivi Apne Aapko Neki, Bhalai per yu ubhaare k JIS Din Duniya se Chali gayi meri Neki ,Bhalai Shohar ko yaad aayegi ,Aur Shohar mere liye Dua karenge , Meri khidmat unko Raat ke andhero aur Din ke ujaalo me mere liye DUAO'N per majboor karegi aur Shayad yahi meri Magfirat ka aur Allah Ta'ala ke Raazi hone ka sabab ban jaye ,
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* Hazarta Aayesha Raziyallahu Anhuma farmayi he'n ," Jitna Rashk mujhe Hazrat Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma per hua utna Rasulallah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Kï kisi Bivi per nahi hua ,Halanki mene unhe dekha bhi nahi tha ,Iski vajah ye he k Rasulallah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Aksar unka zikr farmaya karte the aur Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ka dastoor tha k jab Aap koi Bakri Zibah farmate to talash kar karke Hazrat Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma Kï Saheliyo ko uska Gosht hadiya bheja karte the, ( Bukhari,, 3818 )
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* Aakhir kya vajah thi K Huzoor Akram Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne Hazrat Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma ke saath wafadari ko is qadar Khoobsurat tareeqe se Aakhir tak nibhaye rakha Jo Miya Bivi dono ke liye ek misaal rakhti he ,Kya Mubarak Zindgi thi ,Kaash ! Aaj bhi Miya Bivi esi saaf suthri Zindgi apnaye aur ek doosre ke wafadaar ho ,Khususan Bivi har qism Kï nafarmani ,ahsan faramoshi aur bad ahadi se bachne Kï bharpoor koshish kare ,to in Sha Allah der saver iska badla Duniya v Akhirat dono me jayegi ,
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* Har Musalman Bivi ke liye ibrat ka samaan ,Hazrat Khadija Raziyallahu Anhuma Kï Seerat maslan Shohar Kï ita'at ,Muhabbat v khidmat ,izzat ,Narm guftgu ,isaar ,apnapan ,Sabr aur Shukr ke Mubarak aur qeemti moti he"n ,
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* Har Musalman Bivi se darkhwast kaete he'n k in Motiyo'n ka haar Apne gale me daal kar Apne Shohar ke paas jaye aur in Motiyo'n ko Apni Anguthi ka nageena ,Apne Sar ka Taaj banaye ,k uska DUNIYA me aane ka maqsad hi in Motiyo'n ko Apne daaman me Samet kar Apne Maula ke paas jaa kar Jannat Kï niyamato ka Mustahiq hona he ,Allah Ta'ala sabki madad Farmaye ,Aameen
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* Kash ! Aaj bhi Musalman Biviya'n Apne Shohar ko Jo ( Alhamdulillah agarche Musalman hai"n ) islam ke kisi Hukm se Gaafil he'n ya koi esa Amal kar rahe he'n Jiski Vajah se Allah Ta'ala naraaz honge aur Akhirat me uski Saza bhugatni pade to Unke liye Yahi asbaab Akhtyar kare ,
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* Pehle unse khoob Muhabbat kare aur Muhabbat ka Raaste ita'at aur unki baat ko maanna he ,lihaza kisi bhi tarah unko naraaz na kare ,Fir khoob unke liye Allah se Duae'n maange ,
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* K Ey Allah ! Mere Shohar ko Namazi ,Deendar ,Gunaho se bachne wala ,Nekiyo'n se Muhabbat karne wala ,Deen ko Duniya me felane wala aur Mujahid bana dijiye ,Unke Dil se Duniya me hamesha rehne ka khayal nikaal dijiye, Apni aur Rasulallah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Kï Muhabbat se unke Dil v Dimaag ko Sar sabz kar dijiye ,,,Aameen.
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* Fir Muhabbat v Shafqat bhare lehje me adab se munasib moqa dekh kar Samjhaiye ,Agar Wo khuda na khasta haraam kamaai me mulavvis he ,maslan :- Sood ka kaam karte he'n ya Jhoot Bol kar Sauda bechte he'n ,Ya Haraam cheezo Kï tijarat karte he'n Ya Rishwat Kï Aadat he ,Ya logo ka Karz waqt per ada nahi karte to unki islaah Kï koshish kare ,Baar Baar unko samjhaiye ,Achchhe mahol me unko bheje ,Tahajjud me Ro Ro kar unke liye Allah se Hidayat aur Nek Tofeeq ko maange ,
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* Zara Sochiye ! Ye Amaal ( Namaz padh kar Ro Ro kar Duae'n maangna fir Muhabbat bhare andaz me samjhana fir Duae'n karna ) agar Abu Jahal ke Bete ka Dil mom kar sakte he'n to kya Aapke Shohar ya Bhai ,Bete ka Dil naram nahi kar sakte ? Karke to dekhiye ,Allah Ta'ala Aapki Muraad zaroor poori farma denge ,
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✿●•·Islam Ka Bhi Haq Ada Kijiye ,
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* Hazraate Sahabiyaat Raziyallahu Anhuma ne Shohar ka Haq ada karte hue islam ko felane Kï khatir Islam ka bhi bhar poor Haq ada KIYA aur Apne baad aane wali Musalman Behno ko ye Sabaq de gayi ,
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* K Musalman Bivi Kï Zimmedari sirf Apne Shohar aur Bachcho tak hi mehdood nahi balki jis tarah Mardo Kï Zimmedari he k Deen ko Duniya me felaye usi tarah Aurte'n bhi Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Kï Ummat me se he'n aur Khatme Nabuwat Kï Barkat se Aurto'n per bhi laazim he k iski fikr kare k Duniya ke tamaam Mard aur Aurat Musalman ho jaye ,
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* Iske liye Agar Shohar ke saath Apne Ghar ,Basti ,Mulk se bahar bhi Hijrat karke Jana pade to uske liye bhi taiyaar rahe ,
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* Jis Tarah Hazrat Umme Hakeem Raz. Makka mukarrama se Shaam gayi ,Hazrat Ruqaiya Raz. Makka Mukarrama se Habsha gayi ,Hazrat Khansa Raz.Apne Beto ke saath Iraq gayi aur Hazrat Umme Haraam Raz. Jazira Qabris ( Cyprus) gayi aur Wahi inteqal hua ,wahi Dafan hui ,
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* isi tarah Bahut si Sahabiyaat Raz. Deen felane ke liye Apne Shohar aur Apne Mehram ke saath Duniya bhar me gayi aur Unki qabre bhi Allah ke Raaste me Deen felate hue bani ,
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* Lihaza aane wali Musalman Behno ke liye qayamat tak unki qabre bhi gawaah he'n k humne ghar aur watan chhor kar Allah ke Raaste me gayi ,Safar Kï mashakkate ,takleefe jheli ,Sardiya garmiya bardasht Kï aur Akhri saans tak Allah ke naam ko buland karne Kï mehnat Kï aur Jab us Raaste ke andar hi Allah ka bulawa aa gaya to safar hi me Labbek kaha aur Wahi Dafan ho gayi ,
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* Ek Martaba Hazeat Umar Raziyallahu Anhu Sawari per ja rahe the, Aas paas log the ,Raaste me Hazrat Khola Raziyallahu Anhuma ne unko roka aur unse kuchh kehna chahti thi ,to Aap ruk gaye ,is per Aapse ek Shakhs ne kaha ," Aap ek Budhiya ki Vajah se Raaste me ruk gaye ,"
To farmaya :- Kya tum jaante ho ye Aurat kon he ? Allah Ta'ala ne saath Asmaano per inki baat ko suna ye Khola bin Saalba he'n ,( mai kon tha Jo unki baat ko taal ta ),
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* Ye tha islami Mashre me Musalman Bivi ka imaani maiyar aur Allah Kï zaat per mukammal bharosa ,Usko agar takleef pahunchti to foran Allah se faryad karti ,( k jisne ye mushkil bheji he wahi iska hal bhejega ),Wo har Mushkil ke baad asaani paida karta he ,Mushkil halaat aur uska Hal usi ke taabe he ,wahi hansata he ,wahi rulata he ,wahi Zindgi deta he ,wahi maarta he ,
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* Lihaza kesi hi pareshani wale halaat ho mayoos na ho ,balki Allah Ta'ala se maange ,Wazu Kijiye, Dhyan ke saath Do raka'at nifl padhiye aur Allah hi se apni Shikayat ko kahiye ,isliye k Allah farmate he'n ,"Ey imaan walo Allah hi se madad talab karo Saath Sabr ke aur Namaz ke ,beshak Allah sabireen ke saath he ,"
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* Agar koi esa gam aur pareshani wala haal ho Jo bahut sataye to ye hamare pyare Nabi Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Kï Sunnat he k usko Dil me chhupaya na jaye balki koi ghar me samajhdar ho tounhe bata diya jaye ,unse mashwara liya jaye ,Masa'il aur pareshan ka Hal karne wala to Allah hi he lekin uska Hukm he k ese moqe per Mashwara kar liya jaye ,
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* Hazrat Thanvi Reh. Farmate he'n ," Biviyo'n ! Tumko Mard ke gusse Kï vajah se gussa aana ye batlata he k tum Apne aapko Mard se bada ya barabar darja ka samajhti ho aur ye khayal hi sarasar galat he ,Agar tum Apne ko Mard se chhota aur mahkoom samjho to chahe Wo kitna gussa karta ho tumko hargiz gussa na aata ,
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* Pas tum is khayale faasid ko Dil se nikaal do aur jesa Allah Ta'ala ne tumko banaya he wesa hi Apne ko Mard se Chhota samjho aur Mard Kï waqai galti aur beja gussa ke waqt bhi Zaban darazi kabhi na karo balki us waqt khamosh raho aur Jab uska gussa utar jaye to us waqt kaho k mai us waqt to boli nahi ,ab batati hu'n k Aapki fala baat galat thi ya beja thi ,is tarah karne se baat bhi nahi badhegi aur Mard ke dil me Aapki qadar bhi hogi ,
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*Baaz avqaat Bivi chup nahi hoti ,bolti hi rehti he ,moonh zori aur zaban darazi karke apni galtiyo aur kotahiyo Kï safaai pesh karti rehti he'n ,apni galti kisi haal me maanne ko taiyar nahi hoti to Shohar maar peet karne aur haath uthaane per taiyar ho jata he ,
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* Baaz Avqaat Jhagda itna lamba ho jata he k talaaq ke alfaz nikaal jate he'n Jo sirf ek ghar me nahi balki kai khandano me Aag laga dete he'n,
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* Aurto'n me ye bhi Aam marz he k mijaaz sanasi Bahut kam hoti he ,Jawab deti chali jati he'n ,Baat ko dabati nahi ,ESE moqe per Bivi ya Shohar chup ho jaye to jhagda foran khatm ho jayega ,
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* 1- Shohar aur Bachcho ko ghar me dakhil hone Kï Duae'n sikhaye aur Us per Amal karwaiye ,K jab ghar me dakhil ho to" A'auzu billahi ,,,,Bismillah,,,,, Surah ikhlaas ,Darood Sharif aur Dua padh kar dakhil ho ,
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* Dua ye he :-
" Allahumma inni As'aluka Khayral Mavlaji Va Khayral Makhraji Bismillahi Valajna va Bismillahi Kharajna va Alallaahi Rabbina Tawakkalna ,"
** ( Abu Daowd ,2/339)
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* 2 :- Jab gussa aaye to " A'auzu billahi minash Shaytaanir Rajeemi ," padhe ,
**( Bukhari ,6048)**
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* 3:- Janabe Rasulallah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne farmaya ," Tumme se jab kisi ko gussa aaye ,agar Khada he to beth jaye AUR agar usse gussa na jaye to let jaye ,"
*** Abu Daowd ,4782 ***
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* 4:- Gusse ko Zabt karne ke fazail ko soche ,agar Shohar ko gussa aaye to usko fazail yaad dilaye aur Shohar se bhi kahe k mujhe gussa aaye to Aap ye fazail yaad dilaiyega ,
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* Ek Hadees me he k ," Aadmi gusse ka ghoont pi le ,isse zyada koi ghoont Allah ke nazdeek pasand nahi he ,"
**** Ibne maaja ***
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* 5:-Jab Tumme se Kisi Shakhs ko gussa aa jaye to use chahiye k khamosh ho jaye ,"
*** Musnad Ahmad ,1/339 ***
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* Hazrat Abu Darda Raziyallahu Anhu ne Apni Bivi se kitni pyari baat kahi thi ,Farmaya :-
"Tum jab mujhe naraaz dekho to tum mujhe mana Lena aur agar mai tumhe naraaz dekhunga to mai tumhe manane Kï koshish karunga ,Varna hamari gaadi ek Saath nahi chal sakti ,"
✿●•·Shohar Kï Taraf se Nayi Dulhan ko Tohfa ," Chaar Hikmat Kï Chudiya'n, "
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* 1- Agar Kabhi mujhse Galti ho jaye to maafi aur Chashm poshi se kaam Lena ,Taki Teri Muhabbat mere Dil me barqarar rahe aur Jab mai gusse me hu to us waqt mere saamne Jawab bilkul mat dena ,
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* 2- Agar Tum gusse ke waqt Chup na rahi to ho sakta he mere moonh se esi baat meri be ahatyati Kï Vajah se nikal jaye Jisse Umar bhar tumhe bhi Pareshani uthani pade aur mujhe bhi ,Allah Ta'ala har Musalman Mard Aurat Kï hifazat farmaye ,
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* 3- Aur Shikwe Shikayato Kï kasrat bhi na karna ( Yaad rakhna k ye itni buri cheez he k ) isse ( Miya Bivi ke darmiyan) Muhabbat khatm ho jati he ,( Allah Aapki hifazat farmaye agar aap bhi isme mubtila he'n ) to mera Dil Aapse nafrat karne lagega aur Dilo ke badalne me dair nahi laga karti ,
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* 4 - Mene to ye dekha he k Shohar Kï taraf se Muhabbat aur Bivi Kï taraf se nafarmani takleef ( ya Shikwa Shikayat Kï kasrat ya Shohar ke gusse ke waqt khud bhi gussa me aa Jana ) Dono baate agar Jama ho jaye to Shohar Kï Muhabbat esi Bivi se khatm ho jati he ,
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✿●•·Shohar Kï Betuki Baate aur Samajh dar Bivi ka Jawab,
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* Ek Din Khalid bin Yazeed ne ek Rishtedar ke saamne Bivi ke Bhai ke mutalliq sakht alfaz kahe ,unki Bivi Ramala Bint Zuber Sar jhuka kar khamosh bethi rahi ,
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* Khalid ne jab Sab kuchh keh dala ,Fir bhi uske gusse Kï Aag na bujhi to usne apni Bivi se khitab karte hue kaha ," Kyu ! Tumne kuchh kaha nahi ,Kya meri baat ka tumhe bhi aitraaf he k tumhara Bhai waqai esa hi he ,isliye chup bethi ho ya meri Baat tumhe nagawaar guzri aur jawab na dena pade ,isliye tum khamosh ho ?
Ramala ne kaha :- Mere peshe Nazar na ye rukh he na Wo ,Baat ye he k hum Aurto'n ka kaam Mardo ke darmiyan Dakhal dena nahi he ,na hum isliye paida Kï gayi he'n ,Hamari haisiyat to Khushbudar podho aur Foolo Kï si he Jo soonghne aur nazro ko bhaane ke liye samete jate he'n, isliye tum Mardo ke maamlaat me dakhal andazi se Hume kya waasta ,"
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* Khalid ko apni Bivi ka ye jawab itna pasand aaya k Wo Apni jagah se uthaa aur aa kar Bivi Kï peshani ko chooma aur bahut hi khush hua aur Jo Dil me Apne Saale ke mutalliq nagawari thi Wo bhi khatm ho gayi ,
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* Isliye Hazrat Suleman bin Daowd Alaihissalam APNE faislo me farmate the ,
" Samajhdaar Aurat Ujde hue ghar ko Abaad karti he aur na samajh Aurat bane banaye Abaad ghar ko Veeraan kar deti he ,"
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✿●•·Na Meharban Shohar ko Meharban Banane ka Tareeqa,
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* Agar Gusse me Shohar tumko bura bhala kahe to tum bardasht karo aur bilkul jawab na do ,chahe Wo kuchh bhi kahe ,Tum chup Bethi raho ,Gussa utarne ke baad dekhna khud sharminda hoga aur fir kabhi in Sha Allah Ta'ala tum per gussa na hoga aur agar tum Bol uthi to baat badh jayegi fir na maloom nobat kaha tak pahunche ,
** Bahishti Zever **
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* Aurat Kï Shakl Soorat aur tabiyat v fitrat hi Allah Ta'ala ne esi banayi he k usse kitni hi badi galti ho jaye aur ye Narmi se maafi talab kar le to Mard maaf karne per majboor ho jata he ,
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* Aurat Kï Sabse badi khoobi ye he k Wo sheeri ( mithi ) zaban ho ,Sheeri Zabani ek esi umda aur ek esi dilkash khoobi he k isse achchhe se achchhe aur Bade se bade log bhi taabe ho jate he'n, Kahawat mashoor he ," Zaban Sheeri to mulk geeri ,"
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* Mithi aur Sheeri Zaban ek esa jadoo he Jo hamesha Apne saamne wale per asar andaz hota he ,Sheeri Zaban Aurat ke aybo ko bhi log bhool jate he'n,
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* Ek Aurat me Duniya bhar Kï khoobiya'n ho lekin agar Wo Bad-zaban ho to uski saari khoobiyo'n per paani fir jata he ,Agar Aurat CHAHE to Sheeri Zaban ke jaadu se Na-meharban Shohar ko bhi Meharban bana sakti he ,
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✿●•· Miya Bivi ke Jhagdo ke Khaatme ke liye Do Usool ,
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* Agar Aurat in Do baato ko apna le to hum Yaqeen ke saath keh sakte he'n k Miya Bivi ke bahut se jhagde khatm ho jayenge ,Bahut si na ittefaqiya .....na chaqiya...zulm v zyadti ...naraaz ho kar Maayke chale Jana ....masoom Bachcho per gussa nikaalna ...khula Lena ..talaaq ka mutalba karna ye sab kharabiya in Do usoolo per Amal karne se izzat v Shafqat ,isaar v bardasht ,Ikraam v ahatraam ,narmi me badal jayengi aur Muhabbat paida ho jayegi ,
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* 1- Bivi " Ji Haa'n " lafz bolna Sikh le , Har waqt " Ji Haa'n " kahe ,maslan Shohar Din ko Raat kahe to bhi " Ji Haa'n "
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2- Doosra usool Maafi maangna aur Yu kehna k Aainda esa nahi hoga ," Galti ho gayi maaf karna ,Aainda esa nahi hoga ,"
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* Ab iske baad Shaitaan ke liye us ghar me Jhagda paida karane ka koi hathiyar baqi nahi rahega ,
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✿●•· Shukr Guzari ,
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*_Aurte'n Shuru se hi Apne aapko Shukr ka aadi bana le ,Har waqt JIS haal me bhi Allah ne Shohar ke ghar me rakha uska Shukr kare ,Shohar ke Ghar Kï Daal Roti ko Qorma aur Biryani Samjhe aur is per bhi Allah Ta'ala ka Shukr kare ,
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* Shohar Ghar me chahe kesi bhi cheez laye ba takalluf hi unka Shukriya ada Kijiye ,har Cheez ko Shukr ke Chashme laga kar dekhiye to Buraaiya'n chhup jayegi aur Achchhaiya'n Aapke saamne aayengi ,
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* Allah Ta'ala ka Vaada he k Jab Allah ka Shukr ada kiya jayega to Allah Ta'ala niyamato ko badhayenge ,
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* Huzoor Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne Aurto'n se khitaab farmate hue farmaya , Maine dozakh me sabse zyada Aurto'n ko dekha ,Vajah poochhi gayi to farmaya ," Shohar Kï na-shukri Kï Vajah se ,"
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* Dekhiye Shohar Kï Na-Shukri karna itna bada Gunaah he k Jahannam me Jane ke asbaab me se ek sabab he ,
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* isliye Apne tamaam mohsino ka khususan Shohar ka Shukr ada karna ,iska asaan Tareeqa he k har waqt kahiye ," Jazakallahu khaira " ( Allah is ka Aapko behtreen badla ata kare ) aur Chhote Bachcho ko bhi Aap iska aadi Banaiye ,Agar Aap Bachcho ko paani ka gilaas de ,koi Khane pine Kï cheez de to ye kehalwao ,Beta kaho ," Jazakallahu khaira " agar Bachcho se koi kaam liya to Aap bhi kahiye ," Jazakallahu khaira ,"
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✿●•· Sabr ,
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* Sabr kehte he'n Koi takleef dah baat pesh aaye to Zaban se koi khilafe Shar'a baat na nikale ,na Jism ke doosre A'aza se koi khilafe shar'a koi kaam kare ,Na Parwardigaar se Shikwa kare na Amaal se nafarmani ho , Agar Gam ,Bimari ,Pareshani ke waqt bhi ye kaifiyat he to ye Aadmi Sabr karne wala he ,
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* Sabr karne wale ka har aane wala Din uske guzre hue din se behtar hua karta he aur Be Sabri karne wale ka har Aane wala din uske guzre hue Din se badtar hua karta he ,
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* Ye Pakki baat Apne Dilo per likh lijiye, Allah Ta'ala ko Sabr karne walo SE Muhabbat he ,Qurane paak me Allah Ta'ala ka Irshad he,"
إِنَّ اللَّهَ مَعَ الصَّابِرِينَ
Beshak Allah Ta'ala Sabr karne walo ke saath he ,
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* isliye Gamo per pareshan na hua kare ,Ye Zindgi ka hissa he ,agar khushiya'n hamesha nahi rehti to fir Gam bhi hamesha nahi raha karte ,,Allah Ta'ala farmate he'n, " Har tangi ke baad Asaani he ,"
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* Allah Ta'ala ka hukm he ," Ey imaan walo ( Tabiyato me gam halka karne ke bare me ) Sabr aur Namaz se Sahara ( aur Madad ) haasil karo ,Bila Shubha Haq Ta'ala ( har tarah se ) Sabr karne walo ke saath rehte he'n,
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* Aur Namaz padne walo ke saath to badarja Aula saath rehte he'n, Vajah ye he k Namaz Sabse badi ibaadat he ,Jab Sabr me ye Vaada he to Namaz Jo isse badh kar he usme to badarja Aula ye basharat hogi ,
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✿●•· Nek Bivi Ka Allah Ta'ala Kï Taqseem Per Raazi ho Jana ,
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* Ye Bhi ek Nek Bivi Kï Sifat he k Jo kuchh Allah Ta'ala ne diya us per Raazi ho Jana ,aur is per Shukr ada kare ,
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* Lihaza Har Musalman Aurat ko Chahiye k Kisi se bhi kisi qism Kï koi Ummeed na rakhe ,khususan Musalman Nek Bivi Kï yahi Shaan honi chahiye k Apne Shohar ,Waalid ,Bhai ,Saas aur Bhabhi kisi se kuchh bhi milne Kï Ummeed na rakhe ,
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* Aur Ye Yaqeen rakhe k koi Banda kisi ko Allah ke Hukm ke bager kuchh bhi nahi de sakta ,Sabko dene wala Wahi he ,Sabko paalne wala wahi he ,lihaza usi se Ummeed rakhi jaye ,Jiske paas Jo kuchh he Wo usi Allah ka diya hua he aur uske imtihan ke liye Aaj uske haath me amanat he ,
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* Aksar Baar Baar maangne wali Bivi Shohar Kï nigaah se gir jati he aur Jo Bivi Shohar se kisi cheez ka mutalba nahi karti balki Sirf Shohar se ye kehti he k" Aapki Dua chahti hu'n ,Jab Aap mujhe dekh kar muskura dete he'n ye mere liye Duniya Kï sabse qeemti cheez he ,"
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* Shohar Jo kuchh bhi le aaye us per Shukriya ada karna aur uski cheez Kï Tareef karna hi chahiye, lekin Khud koshish kare k Apni zaban se na maange ,Haa'n Allah Ta'ala se khoob khoob aur baar baar maange ,Fir Zarurat Samjhe to is andaaz se Shohar ko keh de k ," Mera khayal he k ye cheez ghar ke liye zarurat Kï he baqi jesa Aap munasib samjhe ," Ya " Mai ye chahti hu k ye Kapda fala Kï Shadi ke liye khareed lu ,Aapka kya khayal he ?"
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* 1- Uski baat ko poori Tavajjoh se sune ,Bich me na bole ,Jab baat poori ho jaye aur fir koi baat samajh na aayi ho to poochh le kyuki bich me bolne se Aksar baat ka rukh kahi se kahi nikal jata he aur baat ka maqsad bhi faut ho jata he ,
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* 2- Kabhi " Tu " ka lafz istemal na kare ,balki hamesha " Aap " ka lafz istemal kare ,Hamare yaha Baaz khandano me to Tu keh dena gaali Kï tarah shumar hota he ,
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* 3- Hamesha Apna lahja naram rakhe ,Kabhi bhi Tez lahje me baat na kare ,balki gusse Kï Aamzish se door ho kar Narmi v Shaguftgi se baat kare ,
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* 4- Kyu ,Kya ,Kese ,Kab ,Kaha'n ,in alfaz ko kabhi istemal na kare ,Maslan - Aap kyu dair se aaye ?
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* 5- Shohar ko Hukm ke lahje me koi baat na kahe ,insaan Kï tabiyat he k koi baat usko Hukm se kahi jaye ya Zabardasti usse talab Kï jaye to ya Wo inkaar kar dega ya bedili se kaam karega ,
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* 6- Moqe per Guftgu ,,"moqe per kahi baat Sone Kï daliyo Kï tarah hoti he ,"Nek Biviya'n foran be tarki jawab nahi deti ,balki baat ko sun kar khamosh rehti he ,Sochti he fir soch samajh kar baat karti he, Anjaam ko saamne rakh kar baat karti he ,Moqe per baat karti he ,
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* 7- Jawab Saaf dijiye ,agar Shohar koi baat poochhe to uske sawal per gor kare aur sawal ka maqsad samjhne Kï koshish kare k is sawal karne ma maqsad kya he ,Jawab dene me sawal se hat kar koi fizool baat na Kï jaye k jisse baat aage bad jaye ,
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8- Adhuri baat bhi na Kijiye ,aur Zarurat Kï baat me fizool baat na milayi jaye ,
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* Yaad rakhiye kisi Aqalmand ka qaul he k Duniya me har insaan se galtiya'n saadir hoti he ,lekin aqalmand Shakhs Wo he Jo apni galtiya'n chhupane me kaamyaab ho sake aur be waqoof Wo he Jo Apne aib khud hi khol de ,
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✿●•· Muskurahat Zinda Dili ka Naam he ,
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* Kehte he'n Muskurahat Rooh ka Darwaza Khol deti he ,Rooh ka Rishta Zahan se ,Zahan ka dimaag se aur Dimaag ka Dil Se hota he ,Bivi khoobsurat wahi samjhi jati he Jo Shohar ke Dil me Khushiya'n bikherne aur Dillagi ka baa'is banne Kï salahiyat rakhti ho,
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* Dil sabse zyada us waqt khush hota he jab koi hansta muskurata Shakhs tumhare qareeb betha ho, Dil Kï Shadmani aur KHUSHI umda Davaa Kï tarah nafa pahunchati he ,
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* isliye Aap Zara ahatyat Kijiye aur hamesha muskura kar Zinda dili ka saboot dijiye, Shohar ke aate hi Apne aur Bachcho ke chehro per Muskurahat ka powder mal lijiye, Aur Shohar aur Bachcho ko bhi chahiye k Wo ghar me Dakhil ho to Muskurate hue aaye ,
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* Miya Bivi hamesha ye usool yaad rakhe ," Jo Tum muskurao to Sab muskuraye ," Miya Bivi me Muhabbat aur ittefaaq paida karne ka mujarrab nuskha ye he k Dono Muskurahat ko apnaye ,Muskurahat ke khilaf Baato ka zikr hi na kare ,
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✿●•· Manfi Soch se Bachiye ,
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* Yaad rakhiye ! Aapko nafs kabhi ye dhoka na de k mere Maa'n Baap Maaldaar he'n ,Mai'n unke paas chali jaungi ,Nahi kabhi nahi ! Shohar ke kehne per bhi Aap isko qubool na Kijiye balki ESA moqa hi na dijiye k Wo ye keh de k tum Apne Mayke chali jao ,
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* Isliye k Abhi Aapka lad jhagad Kar Shohar ke ghar se nikalna bahut asaan he aur Ye Aapke haath me he,aur ye bhi mumkin he k Walida ko Phone kar ke Gaadi mangwa li aur Mayke chali gayi Ya chhote Bhai aur Walid ko bula liya aur chali gayi ,Lekin fir dobara lotna bada mushkil hoga ,
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* Ap Lotna Aapke haath me nahi rahega ye kisi aur ke haath me chala jayega k Wo Jab Aapko bulana chahega bulayega ,aur Jo cheez doosre ke haath me chali jaye usme fir Apni nahi chalti ,
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* Isliye kabhi is khayal ko bhi Dilo Dimaag me mat aane dihiye ,Abhi to Walid bhi ,Chhote Bade Bhai bhi Aapka saath denge ,lekin Jese jese Waqt guzarega Aapko Walden ke ghar ka ek Din ek Maah ke barabar lagega ,
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* Jab Chhote Bhaiyo Kï Shadi hogi aur Allah ne kare Bhabhiyo ne ye keh diya ," Hamare Saath kya nibhayegi jab Apni Saas ,Shohar ke saath to nibhaya nahi ," Us waqt ka ek Taana paththar jese jigar me bhi suraakh kar sakta he ,
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* Shohar ke ghar ka mamooli khana ,Doosre Kï murgi biryani se badarjaha behtar hota he ,isliye Dil me kabhi is khayal ko jagah mat dijiye k " Mayke chali jaungi ,"isliye Badi budhiya kehti thi ,Doli me aayi ab janaze Kï soorat me hi waapas jaungi ,
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✿●•· Aurto'n Kï Aapas Kï Ladaaiya'n ,
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* Baaz Aurto'n Kï ek Buri Aadat ye hoti he k ek Zara Sa ladaai ka bahana mil jaye usko muddato tak na bhoolengi ,Baal Kï khaal utaarti jayengi ,Unki ladaaiya'n sakht to nahi hoti magar lambi hoti he ,Inka Keena kisi tarah nikalta hi nahi ,Koi ghar ESA nahi jisme Aurte'n isme mubtila na ho ,Maa'n Beti ,Saas Bahu ,Devrani Jethani ,Nanad Bhojai Aapas me ladti he'n ,
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* in sabki Buniyad Aham parasti he ,aur iska ilaaj ye he k Suni Sunaai baato per aitbaar na kare ,
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* Masnoon Tareeqa bhi yahi he k Agar kisi se kuchh Shikayat Dil me ho to foran us Shakhs se zaahir kar de ,Agar Zaahir nahi karegi to Dil me Keena ,Dushmani aur Gusse ke jazbaat ka podha ug jayega Aur jese jese waqt guzrega ye podha darakht banega inki jade gehri hogi k nikaalna mushkil hoga ,
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* Aur agar Shikayat Sahi ho to foran Shikayat door kar ke ek Doosre se maafi talafi kar le aur agar galat ho to hamesha ke liye iska ladaai ka Darwaza band ho jayega ,
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* Lihaza Do baato ko yaad rakhe ,Purani Baate to bilkul bhula de aur Kisi se Geebat ,Chugli Sune hi nahi ,agar Sun li to us per Yaqeen na kare ,
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✿●•· Khoobsurat Aurat Konsi He ,
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* Yaad rakhiye ! Khoobsurat Nazar aane ka Bada sabab " ita'at " he ,Shohar Kï farmabardari aur ita'at to Bivi Kï fitrat me Shaami hona chahiye ,Kyuki Shohar hi to he Jo uske liye Din Raat ek karta he aur musalsal Apne aapko thakaata he ,uska Haq to isse kahi bada hua he ,Lihaza khair aur bhalaai ke KAAMO me uski ita'at aur Tabedaari farz ( Zaroori ) he ,
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* isliye Hazrat Aayesha Raziyallahu Anhuma Aurto'n ko Apne Shoharo ke bare me nasihat karti thi aur sakht lehje me farmati thi ,
" Ey Aurto'n Kï jama'at ! Agar tum jaan leti k tum per tumhare Shoharo ke kya Huqooq he'n to tum unke Qadmo ke gubaar ko Apne rukhsaar se saaf karti ,"
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* Bivi Kï khoobsurati ka Raaz Shohar ki ita'at me poshida he ,Jitni wo Shohar Kï farmabardari karegi utni hi zyada khoobsurat lagegi ,
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* isliye k Aurat ishq v naaz ke teero se les hone ke bavjood bhi Mard Kï qadawar shakhsiyat ke saamne bebas he ,aur uski kamzori zaahir he aur Bilaakhir Jald hi majboor ho kar use Mard Kï tabedaari aur ita'at ke liye Sar jhuksna hoga ,Adaab v Akhlaq se araasta ho kar Aainda har qism Kï nafarmani se parhez karna hoga ,
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* Lihaza Musalman Bivi is baat ko achchhi tarah samajh le k Shohar Kï nigaah me haqeeqi Khoobsurati uski ita'at he ,isliye Shohar Kï khoob ita'at kare ,
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* Shohar Kï chhezo ko khoob saleeqe aur tehzeeb se rakhe ,Rehne ka kamra Saaf ho ganda na ho ,Bistar mela kuchela na ho ,Takiya mela ho to gilaaf badal de ,
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* Jab uske kehne per Aapne kiya to isme baat kya rahi ,Maza to isi me he k bager kahe hue sab cheeze theek kar de ,Jin cheezo ko Wo Jis tarah saleeqe se rakhna chahta ho wese rakhe ,
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* Jo cheez Aapke paas rakhi ho unko hifazat se rakhe ,Kapde ho to Teh karke rakhe ,Yuhi idhar udhar na daale ,bikhre pade na ho ,saleeqe se rakhe ,
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* Agar Shohar ke Maa'n Baap zinda ho aur Rupiya paisa Sab unhi ko de aur Aapko na de to Bura na maane ,balki agar Aapko de to tab bhi samajhdari Kï baat ye he k Aap apne haath me na le balki ye kahe k unhi ko de dijiye taki Saas Sasur ka Dil Aapki taraf se mela na ho ,
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* Aur Jab tak Saas Sasur Zinda he'n unki Khidmat aur Taabedari ko apna Farz samjhe aur isi me Apni izzat Samjhe ,aur Saas Nando se alag ho kar rehne Kï hargiz fikr na kare Kyuki Saas Nando se bigaad Kï Jad yahi he ,
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* Jo Kaam Saas aur Nande'n karti he'n Aap uske karne se Sharm aur Sar mehsoos na kare ,Aap khud bhi unse keh kar kaam le Aur kare ,isse Sasural walo ke Dil me Aapki Muhabbat paida ho jayegi ,
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* Jab Do Aurte'n Aapas me chupke chupke Baate'n kar rahi ho to unse alag ho jaye aur is baat Kï fikr na kare k Aapas me kya Baate'n kar rahi thi ,Aur na hi bekaar hi ye khayal kare k hamari hi Baate'n kar rahi hogi ,
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* Har maamle me Apni Walida Kï tarah Saas ka adab karo aur har haal me unki Razamandi ko muqaddam samjho ,chahe tumko takleef ho ya Raahat ,magar unki marzi ke khilaf ek qadam bhi na uthaao ,
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* Zaban se ESA koi lafz na nikaal jisse unko takleef ho ,Unse jab baat karo to ese alfaaz istemal na karo jese Apni barabar waliyo se karti ho ,balki un alfaz se baat karo Jo BUZURGO ke liye istemal KIYE jate he'n, Agar Saas Kisi maamle me tambeeh kare ,Daante to unke kehne ko khamosh ke saath sun lo aur Yaad rakho Apne Shohar Kï Saas ( Maa'n) se zyada apni Saas ka khayal rakho ,
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* Agar kabhi nagawar aur talkh baat keh de ( k Jiski Ummeed to nahi he ) tab bhi usko meethe Sharbat Kï tarah pi jao aur hargiz SAKHTI se jawab na do ,Agar kisi kaam ko doosro ko kahe to tum usko bhi apni taraf se anjaam do ,
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* Agar koi Aurat Tumse Martaba aur Umar me badi he jese Shohar ke bade Bhai Kï Bivi ,uske saath guftgu aur uthne bethne me uske Martaba ka lihaaz rakho aur uske saath is tarah mil jul kar raho jese sagi behne'n ho ,tum agar ESA bartaav rakhogi to zaroor doosri taraf se bhi ESA hi bartaav hoga ,
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* Aur agar Umar v Martaba me tumse Chhoti ho to uske saath Muhabbat aur Pyar wala bartaav rakho aur usko nihayat Narmi se achchhi baato Kï taleem deti raho ,aur Wo koi kaam kare to tum uski madad kardo ,
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* Isi tarah Shohar Kï Behno ke saath unke martaba ke mutabiq sulook karo ,
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* Apne ghar ya kisi doosre ke ghar kisi taqreeb ( program) me Aurto'n ke saath mil betho to peeth pichhe kisi ke bare me esi baate mat kaho k agar Wo sune to bura maane ,isi ko Geebat kehte he'n ,Geebat karna sakht gunaah he ,
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* Ghar me Jo Bachche he'n chahe Devrani ,Jethani Kï Aulaad ho ya ese qareebi Rishtedaro ke Jo us ghar me rehte he'n ,Unke saath nihayat Narmi se pesh aao ,Hadees Sharif me aaya he " Jo Shakhs bado ka adab na kare aur Chhoto per reham na kare Wo humme se nahi ( yani uska humse talluq nahi ),"
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* Hazrat Anas Raziyallahu Anhu se Rivayat he k Rasulallah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne irshad farmaya,
" Agar Aurat Paanch waqt Kï Namaz padhe ,Ramzan ke roze rakhe ,apni izzat aabru ko bachaye rakhe ( yani paak daaman rahe ) aur Apne Shohar Kï ( nek kaamo me ) ita'at kare to ( usko Akhtyar he k ) jis darwaze se chahe Jannat me dakhil ho jaye ,"
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* Aurte'n agar Namaz ka ahatmam kar le aur Azaan sunte hi sab kaamo ko chhor de ,Jo Aurte'n ye sochti he'n k abhi to Azaan hui he ye kaam khatm ho jaye fir Namaz padh lengi to kaam to khatm hote nahi aur Namaz der se padhne ka gunaah alag se hota he aur waqt me barkat khatm ho jati he ,
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* Isliye Aap ghar ke andar Musalle Kï jagah banaye aur usi ko Apne liye Masjid samjhe ,Bada ghar he to ek kamre ko bhi Masjid bana le ,Waha per Tasbeeh bhi ho ,Guthliya'n bhi ho ( zikr ke liye ) aur Quran Majeed bhi qareeb ho aur Parda bhi taki asaani ke saath Namaz padh sako ,aur us jagah bethne Kï aadat daale ,
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* Amuman Aurte'n apni Mushkilaat aur Musibato Kï vajah se kitni pareshan rehti he'n Halanki Allah Ta'ala ne Hume Namaz jesi Azeem ibaadat ata farmayi he ,lihaza Farz Namaz achchhi tarah ada karke Allah Ta'ala se maange ,Fir Hume Taveez aur Dam KIYE hue paani ke liye pareshan nahi hona padega ,balki har farz Namaz padh kar Dua maang kar khud paani per Dam kar sakti he ,
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* Dulhan Shadi wale Din Namaz padhne me Sharm mehsoos karti he ,Halanki us Din zyada Namaz ka ahatmam karna chahiye k Aaj nayi Zindgi ke safar ka Pehla Din he ,
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