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* Baaz martaba Ayyam( Haiz ) se paak ho Jane ke baad Jaldi Namaz shuru nahi karti ,ek do waqt taal deti he'n ,iska Shara'i Hukm ye he k Paaki Nazar aane ke baad ek waqt bhi Namaz qaza karna jaa'iz nahi aur yahi Hukm roze ka he ,
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*Baaz Aurte'n Bachche Kï paidaish ke baad chahe 30 din baad hi paak ho gayi ho ,fir bhi 40 din tak Namaz nahi padhti ,Halanki aurat jab bhi paak ho jaye ( Chahe 40 roz se kam dino me hi paak hui to Gusl karke Namaz padhna zaroori he ,aur agar na padh saki gaflat aur Susti kotahi Kï to uski qaza wajib he ),
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* Baaz Aurte'n Ye kotahi karti he k un namazo Kï qaza ada nahi karti Jo har mahine Ayyam se paak hone ke baad Gusl der se karne Kï vajah se chhot jati he ,
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* Baaz Aurte'n Khud to Namaz Kï pabandi karti he lekin Saat saal ya isse badi umar ke Bachcho ko na to namaz sikhati he na hi padhwati he ,aur usi tarah Shohar ya Bade Bachcho ko Masjid me bhejne Kï koshish nahi karti ,
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* Iske liye Rozana ghar me " Fazaile Aamaal " aur " Riyazul Saleheen " Kï taleem kare ,Jisse ghar ke tamaam log beth kar sune ,is Amal se Allah Ta'ala Kï khususi rehmate aur Barkate naazil hongi ,ghar ka har fard Namazi ban jayega aur Tilawat v Zikr Kï fiza GHARO me qaayam hogi ,
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* Meri Behan ! Hazrat Fatima Zohra Raziyallahu Anhuma ke is qaul per gor karo k Aurat ke liye khair ye he k na Wo Mardo ko dekhe aur na Mard use dekhe ,Aurat ke liye Khair to sirf isi me he k Wo Mardo ke hujoom aur maidan se door RAHE aur Mard Aurto'n ke maidan se door rahe ,
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* Allah Ta'ala ke nazdeek Aurat ka darja us waqt tak badhta rehta he jab tak Wo apne ghar me rehti he aur Hadees Sharif me aaya he k Aurat Chhipane Kï cheez he ,
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* Hazrat Ali Raziyallahu Anhu kaha karte the, " Ey logo ! Kya tumhe Sharm nahi aayi ,Kya tumme gairat khatm ho gayi he k Tum apni Bivi ko Chhoot de dete ho k Wo Mardo ke beech me se guzarti chali jaye ,k Wo gair Mardo ko dekhe ,aur gair Mard usko dekhe ,"
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* Ek Din ka Zikr he k Ummul Momineen Hazrat Aayesha aur Hazrat Hafsa Raziyallahu Anhuma Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ke paas bethi hui thi k Hazrat Abdullah bin Umme Maktoom Aapke paas aaye ,Ye nabina ( blind ) Sahabi the ,to Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne dono se Farmaya, " inse Parda karo ,"
Dono Ummul momineen ne kaha ," Ey Allah ke Rasool ! Kya ye Nabina nahi he ,na Hume dekh sakte he'n na pehchan sakte he'n? "
Ye Sun kar Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne farmaya ," Kya tum dono bhi Nabina ho aur kya tum use nahi dekh rahi ho ,"
( Abu Daowd Sharif)
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* is Hadees Sharif se Parde ki ahmiyat khoob waaze ho gayi aur ye bhi maloom ho gaya k Parda Dono taraf se hona chahiye ,na k ek hi taraf se aur Jisse Parda ka Hukm hua he usse Aankho wala Parda Muraad he na k dil wala ,
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* Baaz Jaahil qism Kï Aurto'n me mashoor he Wo kehti he'n k Asal Parda to Dil ka hota he ,Jab Dil me Parda he to Zaahiri numaishi Parde Kï kya zarurat he ,Esa khayal bhi jahalat he ,
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* Lihaza is baat ka khaas khayal rakhe k Koi Na Mehram Mard Aapke Jism ke kisi hisse ko na dekh sake,, Chahe Wo Dever ho ,Ya Nokar ho ,Khalazaad ya Mamuzaad ho ,ya koi bhi esa Mard ho Jisse Allah Ta'ala ne parde a Hukm diya he ,usse Apne Jism ko chhupaye rakhe ,
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* Aur Bila Zarurat bahar na nikle ,agar majboori me Jana pade to Burqa pehan kar nikle ,Agar Aapne apna Chehra khula rakha aur Aapko das Aadmiyo ne dekha to Goya Bees Aankhe Allah Ta'ala ke gazab ka shikaar hui ,
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* Lihaza Kabhi bhi ban than kar na nikle ,Apna Husn gairo ko na dikhaye ,Khususan jab Dulhan bani ho aur Sasural me jaye to poore Burqe me jaye ,
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* Baaz Jagah Allah Ta'ala ko naraaz karne wala ek rivaaj ye bhi he k Aksar Dulhan Apne Dever ,Jeth ya Dulha ke Chachazaad ,Mamuzaad ya Digar Na-mehramo se musafa karti he'n ,
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* Yaad rakhiye ! Aap bager Dar ke bilkul mana kar de k mai ye Na-jaa'iz kaam hargiz nahi karungi , Koi bhi ESA kaam Jo Allah Ta'ala aur uske Rasool Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ke Hukm ke khilaf ho us per mujhe Majboor na kiya jaye ,"
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* Meri Behan ! Jab Aapka Shohar Musafe ko kahe ya Parde se roke to ESE waqt me Aapko Zaalim Firoun Kï Bivi Hazrat Aasiya Kï mustaqil mizaji ko saamne rakhna chahiye, Jaan de Dï magar Allah Kï nafarmani per Raazi na hui ,
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* Jo Aurte'n Apne gharo se be-parda Saj dhaj kar Dulhan ban kar nikalti he Goya Wo Zabane haal se Har nojawan aur Budhe ko Aam Dawat nazaara deti he aur kehti firti he'n k Kya tum is husn v Jamaal ko nahi dekh rahe ho ? Ye sab dekh kar bhi Kya tum Qurbat aur Wasl Kï khwahish nahi rakhte ho ?
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* is tarah ye Aurte'n Bazaro aur Shahraaho per apni khoobsurati Kï numaish karti he"n Jese Feri wala chal fir kar apna Maal jagah jagah dikhata firta he ,Jis tarah mithaai wala saja kar rakhta he taki aane Jane wale Kï Nazar us per pade ,
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* Dozakhiyo ki ek qism ke bare me aata he ," Esi Aurte'n Jo Kapde pehne hue bhi Nangi hogi aur ( gair Mard ko apni taraf ) maa'il karne wali aur ( khud unki taraf ) maa'il hone wali hongi ,( naaz se Shaano ko ghuma kar lachak daar chaal se chalengi ) unke Sar bade bade bakhti ounto'n ke Kohaano Kï tarah foole hue honge ,Esi Aurte'n Jannat me Dakhil na hogi aur na jannat Kï khushbu sunghengi ,Halanki jannat Kï Khushbu itni itni door ke faasle se aayegi ,"
( Muslim Sharif )
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* Lihaza Kisi bhi Musalman Aurat ke liye jaa'iz nahi k Wo ese Kapde pehne jinme jism Kï rangat ya Baal aur A'aza ( part of body ) Kï numaish ho ya ESE Chust Libaas ho Jo A'aza Kï banawat zaahir kare Jisse Mard gunaho me mubtila ho ,
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* Haa'n Apne Shohar ke saamne har ese kaam Kï ijazat he Jiski Vajah se Shohar Kï Tavajjoh sirf apni Bivi per hi rahe ,
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* Hum har Musalman Behan ko Nasihat karte he'n k Nikaah se pehle Aapka hone wala Shohar Aapke liye Ajnabi Shakhs he ,uska Aapko dekhna Haraam he aur uske saath ghoomna firna Duniya v Akhirat dono ko Tabaah karne ka zariya he ,
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* Aap Zara sochiye ! Ek nojawan Ladke ke saath ban than kar nojawan ladki ka Jana Jo usko Choraho ,Parko aur Hotelo me le jaa kar firaye ,Is khuli chhoot ke natije me Hirs Hawas ka ye Patla Saanp ban kar Jab Apne Shikaar ka Ras choos le ,Apna Dil is khilone se achchhi tarah behla le ,Uski izzat ko Sare bazaar ruswa kar de aur is khule Mel jol ke natije me Ladki ko Shadi se pehle hi ............,
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* Is Khullam khulla be hayaai ke natije me bahut se Shareef Khandano Kï izzat maliyamet ho gayi ,Umar bhar ke liye Bachchi Kï Zindgi kharab ho gayi ,is gunaah Kï Nahusat Baaz khandano me is tarah feli k Shadi se pehle Ladka aur Ladki ek doosre se bahut hi Zyada Muhabbat karte the, Ghanto Telephone per baate hua karti ,Ghanto bahar ghooma karte the lekin Shadi ke baad Shohar ka Dil Bivi se hat gaya aur Dekhne wale bhi hairaan ho gaye k in dono me ye nafrat Kï Aag kese lagi ?
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* Haqeeqat ye he Jo Bande Allah Ta'ala ko naraaz karte he'n Wo kabhi sukoon v Raahat ke saath nahi reh sakte ,is gunaah Kï Nahusat Baaz martaba ye bhi suni gayi k Rishta bahut Jaldi toot jata he ,
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* isi tarah Shadi se pehle hone wale Shohar se Phone pe bhi bilkul baat na Kijiye, buraayi Kï tamaam raahe isi se khulti he ,Aap in baato se bachne ka iraada to Kijiye! Allah Ta'ala Aapki zaroor madad farmayenge ,in Sha Allah Ta'ala,
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* isliye k Jo Aurat Apne paida karne wale Maalik ke Hukmo ko maanne wali aur Hazrat Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ke Akhlaq Kï pervi karne wali ban gayi to Wo insaniyat ke Sharf se malamaal ho gayi ,Wo Uns v Ulfat ka mujassama aur Muhabbat v ikhwat ka putla ban gayi ,
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* Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne irshad farmaya, " Ey Bibiyo'n ! Yaad rakho Tumme se Jo Aurte'n Nek he'n Wo Nek Mardo se pehle Jannat me jayegi aur Jab Shohar Jannat me aayenge to ye Aurte'n Gusl karke Khushbu laga kar Shoharo ke hawale kar di jayengi ,Surkh aur Zard Rang Kï sawariyo per sawaar hongi aur unke saath ese Bachche honge jese bikhre hue Moti ,"
( Kanzul Amaal , 16/171)
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* Bivi ko chahiye k Jab bhi Shohar se baat karni ho to mizaaj dekh kar baat kare ,Agar dekhe k us waqt hansi aur dillagi me he to Hansi aur Dillagi kare aur nahi to Hansi Dillagi na kare,Jesa mizaaj ho wesi baat kare,
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* Khoob samajh le k Miya Bivi ka talluq sirf Muhabbat ka nahi hota balki Muhabbat ke saath Miya ka Adab karna bhi zaroori he ,Miya ko Darje me apne barabar samajhna badi galti he ,Shohar se hargiz koi kaam na le ,
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* Shohar jab khush ho to koshish kare k KHUSHI me aap izafa karne ka sabab ban sake ,Aur gamgeen bechain ho to aap uske gam ko halka karne Kï koshish kare aur khud bhi uske gam me saath de,
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* Lutf to isi me he k Shohar Din bhar ka thaka maanda ghar aaye to ghar walo Kï baato se Ji khush kare ,Wo ( Bivi ) usko Raahat de ,unki Raahat ka khayal rakhe ,
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* Jin logo ki mashrat ghar walo ke saath achchhi hoti he waqai unko Duniya hi me Jannat ka maza aata he ,
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* Shohar aur Uske Rishtedaro se dili Muhabbat rakhe aur zaban se unki Tareef kare ,Kyuki jab Bahu ghar me aati he to Khandan Kï nadaan Aurte'n Bartan bajne Kï awaaz ka shiddat se intezar karti he'n ,
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* Isliye Zabardasti puchha Jata he k Kya haal he ?Bahu se ugalwaya jata he k us ghar ko kesa paya ?
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* Agar Kisi Aurat ko Apne Shohar se ( Ya uske Rishtedaro se ) Tabay Muhabbat na ho to bhi us Aurat ko chahiye k ye baat Apne Shohar ke saamne zaahir na kare balki takalluf Muhabbat ka izhaar kare ,isse Muhabbat nahi hogi tab bhi ho jayegi ,
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* Islam ne Miya Bivi ke talluqaat ke silsile me Jo zaroori adaab aur faraiz aa'id kiye he'n unko nibhane aur baja lane Kï koshish kare ,
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* Bas isi tareeqe se Zindgi Kï khush gawaari naseeb ho sakti he ,Kyuki baar baar Muhabbat ka izhaar karne aur purani baate bhula kar naya azm aur pukhta iraada karke CHALNE se ek din Wo aata he k ye Dono Miya Bivi ek Jaan Do Dil ,ek Baatin Do zaahir ,Ek mizaaj Do Roohe'n ,Ek pareshani Do Dua maangne wale ,Ek Dard Do bardasht karne wale aur Ek Fikr Do sochne wale ban Jate he'n ,
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* Shohar Kï Sachchi Muhabbat haasil karne aur Shohar ko apne ouper meharban karne ke liye ye bhi nihayat zaroori he k Agar Miya Bivi me Kisi baat per naraazgi ,garma garmi ho jaye to Nek Bivi ko chahiye k foran maafi maang le ,
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* Nek Musalman Bivi Kï shaan ka taqaza he k Jab he k Jab tak Shohar ko Raazi na kar le Khush na kar le tab tak Chain se na bethe ,
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* isliye k Do Dilo ka mail kuchail Allah Ta'ala Kï Rehmat ko door karta he ,Musibate aur Balaao ko laata he aur insaan per esi esi pareshaniya aati he k uska wahamo gumaan bhi nahi hota ,
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* Lihaza Miya Bivi ke Dil hamesha Aa'ine Kï tarah Saaf suthre hone chahiye k Dono me se har Ek apne liye Muhabbat ,doosre Kï khilti hui peshani per Andheri raato aur ujaale dino me ,JAWANI aur budhape me ,Sahat aur Bimari me ,algaraz Umar Kï har manzil me ye Muhabbat dekhna chahe to dekh le ,
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* Shohar ke Dil me ghar Karne ke liye Bivi aur Dulhan ke liye ye bhi zaroori he k Khana Pakane ,Dastarkhwan bichhane aur us per Saleeqe se cheeze rakhne dhang seekhe ,
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* Kyuki Khana to pet me pahunchta he lekin iska Asar Dilo dimaag aur Jism ke har hisse aur Kinaare tak pahunchta he ,Lihaza Khana Jitna umdgi ,khush aslubi aur Saleeqe se pakaya jayega utna hi Shohar ke Dilo dimaag me Bivi Kï aqalmandi ,Samajhdari ka sikka beth jayega ,aur Uski na mitne wali Muhabbat Kï muhar uske Dilo dimaag per lag jayegi ,
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* Lihaza Bivi Ko koshish kar ke Walden ke Yaha'n hi in cheezo me mukammal maharat haasil kar Lena chahiye, Kyuki ye Shohar ke Dil tak pahunchne ka bahut hi asaan aur achchha tareeqa he ,
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* Jab Aap achchha Khana Allah ta'ala ko Raazi karne ke liye pakayengi to Aapko Teen tareeqe se sawab milega , 1- Allah Ta'ala ko Raazi karne ka sawab ,2- Shohar ko khush karne ka sawab ,3- Shohar Kï Dua ka sawab ,
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* Yani Jab Shohar ,Saas ,Sasur aur Bachche ye niyamate'n khayenge aur usko lazeez aur mazedar payenge to Dil se Allah Ta'ala ka Shukr ada karenge aur Chunki is Shukr ada karne ka Zariya Aap bani ho to Aapko bhi poora poora sawab milega ,
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* Baaz martaba logo ke zahan me ye hota he k Miya Bivi ke talluqaat ek Duniyavi qism ka maamla he aur ye Sirf Nafsani Khwahishaat Kï takmeel ka maamla he Halanki esa hargiz nahi he, Balki ye Deeni maamla bhi he ,
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* isliye k Agar Aurat ye niyat kar le k Allah Ta'ala ne mere zimme ye farz kiya he aur iska maqsad Shohar ko khush karna he aur Shohar ko khush karne ke vaaste se Allah Ta'ala ko khush karna to fir saara Amal baa'ise sawab ban jata he ,
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* Ghar Ke Jo kaam Khwateen karti he'n agar isme Shohar ko khush karne Kï niyat ho to Subeh se le kar Shaam tak Wo jitne kaam kar rahi he wo sab Allah Ta'ala ke Yaha'n ibaadat me likhe jate he'n, Chahe Wo khana paka rahi ho ya ghar Kï dekh bhaal ,Bachcho Kï tarbiyat ho ya Shohar ka khayal ya khush dili Kï baate ho ,in sab per ajro sawab likha jata he ,Basharte k Niyat durust ho ,
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* Aurat Ameer ho ya gareeb usko apne ghar ke kaam apne haath se karne me ek qism Kï KHUSHI mehsoos hoti he aur Kaam bhi Nokro Kï banisbat achchha hota he ,iske Siva Jism Kï ek qism Kï Warzish bhi ho jati he ,Jo tandurasti ke liye be had zaroori he ,
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* Araam Kï aadat bana lene se insaan bilkul Kaahil aur Sust ho jata he ,is Aadat ka asar Sahat per bhi padta he ,Apne haath se sab kaam karne wali Aurto'n Kï Sahat esi Aurto'n se bahut hi achchhi hoti he Jo Aurte'n Nokraniyo se kaam lene Kï aadi hoti he'n ,
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* Khud Sahabiyaat Raziyallahu Anhuma Apne ghar ka kaam kaaj apne Haatho se karti thi Yaha'n tak k Rasoole Paak Sallallahu Alaihivasallam bhi apne Kaam Apne haath se karte the,
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* Haqeeqat me Nikaah kisi Kï gulaami nahi ,balki Aapas me ek doosre ke saath taawun ka naam he ,Shariyat ke muqarrara tareeqe ke mutabiq Mard Aurat ko ek doosre Kï khair khwahi ,Aapas ke Pyar ,Khuloos Kï zarurat padti he aur Zindgi Kï is gaadi ko dono ko mil kar kheenchna padta he aur dono mil kar Zindgi ko apni apni taaqat aur haisiyat ke mutabiq khush gawaar banate he'n aur isko kaamyaab banane ke liye qurbsniya dete he'n,
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* Sasuraal Jate hi Tu har ek ki tavajjoh ka markaz banegi ,sabhi Aurto'n Kï nigaah tujh per lagi hogi ,Sab tere dekhne Kï shoqeen hongi ,Teri har har harkat per ,tare har har qadam per na maloom kesi kesi raayzani hongi ,is waqt tumhe bahut ahatyaat aur hoshiyari Se kaam Lena hoga ,isliye k Teri chhoti si galti bhi ghar Kï Aurto'n ke liye nukta chini ka baa'is banegi ,
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* Allah Ta'ala ne Mard Aurat dono ko ek doosre ke Libaas se tabeer kiya he ,Yani Mard Apni Aurat ke liye Libaas he aur Aurat Apne Shohar ke liye Libaas he ,iska matlab ye hua k Mard Agar Jism he to Aurat uski Rooh he Ya fir Aurat agar jism he to Mard uska Libaas he ,
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* Hazrat Umme Salma Raziyallahu Anhuma ki Rivayat me he k Rasulallah Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne farmaya,
" Jo Aurat is haalat me mar jaye k uska Shohar usse khush tha to beshak esi Aurat Jannat me dakhil hogi ," ( Tirmizi ,1161)
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* isi tarah ek aur Hadees me Huzoor Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne farmaya,
" Ey Aurat ! Dekh Teri jannat aur Dozakh tera khawind he ,"
( Kanzul Ummal ,16/159)
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* Jis Aurat ne Apni khidmat aur Farmabardari Kï Vajah se Shohar ke Dil me maqaam bana liya he ,esi khidmat guzaar Bivi Kï ek minute Kï Judaai se bhi Shohar takleef mehsoos karta he aur uske bager Ghar me bad nazmi paida ho jati he ,
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* Jo Aurat ye chahti ho k Shadi ke baad uski Zindgi tabahi Kï taraf na Jane paye to Wo Kisi bhi maamle me Apne Shohar Kï mukhalfat kabhi na kare aur Jo Jo takleefe pesh aaye moqa ba moqa mukhtalif andaz se Shohar ke saamne pesh kar ke uska faisla karne Kï koshish kare ,Kyuki usi waqt mukhalfat karne se kabhi kaamyabi haasil nahi hoti balki Ye to jalti per tail daalne ke manind hota he ,
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* Agar koi Ladki Apne Shohar ko kisi maamle me khuloos aur Muhabbat se Mashwara degi aur Farz Namazo ke baad aur Raato ko uth kar Shohar ke liye Duae'n karegi to to uska Shohar zaroor uski baat maan lega ,aur agar na bhi maane to bhi Aurat ko ulajhne Kï zarurat nahi ,Kyuki ek baat agar us waqt uski samajh me nahi aayi to kisi doosre moqe per wahi baat uske dimaag me aa jaye ,
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* Miya Bivi me jod ho to izdwaji Sukh aur itmnan mukammal TOR per haasil ho sakta he ,iske bager Zindgi gair mukammal aur dukhi shumar hoti he ,isliye Aurto'n ko Khawind ka Dil jeetne Kï Tadbeere seekhni chahiye, Aurat Chahe kitni hi padhi likhi ,Khoobsurat aur Maaldar kyu na ho lekin in tadbeero ko Jane bager Khawind ke Dil Kï Malika nahi ban sakti ,
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* Jo Aurte'n Khawind Kï khidmat aur Unse Muhabbat ko imaan ka aham juzv tasavvur karti he aur Khawind ke qadmo me Apni Zindgi guzaar dene ko apni kaamyabi tasavvur karti he un Aurto'n ko Apni Zindgi pur sukoon banane ke liye in baato per Amal zaroor karna chahiye,
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* 1-- Huqooq Kï Ri'ayat ,___Aapka Khawind gareeb ho to bhi usko tavangar aur Maaldar hi samjho ,Uska ikraam karo ,Har kaam me usse mashwara lo ,Jo kahe use foran karo ,Uski marzi ke khilaf kabhi koi kaam na karo ,
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* Har baat me uski KHUSHI ka khayal rakho ,Apni khushi per uski KHUSHI ko tarjeeh do ,Har waqt uske araam ka khayal rakho ,Esi koi baat na karo jisse uske Dil ko ranj pahunche ,Jo kuchh Wo Apni khushi se de use le lo ,Jo kaam karne ko kahe is tarah khushi se karo k Wo be fikr ho jaye ,aur Thodi Aamdani ke bavjood kisi qism Kï uljhan na ho ,
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* Zinda Dil ban kar raho ,is tarah khanda peshani se pesh aao k Tumko dekhte hi uska Dil baag baag ho jaye aur sab Pareshani bhool jaye ,Apni Zaroorat se pehle uski zarurat poori karo ,
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* Jaha tak ho sake Usko achchha khilao ,Uske sab kaam Apne haath se karti raho ,Chaay ,Paani ,Nashta pehle hi se taiyaar rakho ,ESA koi kaam aur koi baat na karo jisse usko pareshani ho ,Uski gunzaish se Zyada farmaish na karo Kyuki agar Wo na la saka to usko afsos hoga ,
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* Jaha tak ho sake Apni zarurat khud poori karo usko takleef na do ,Jab Wo ghar aaye to uske saamne apna Rona mat ro ,maloom nahi k Wo kis haalat me ghar aaya hoga aur bahar us per kya guzri hogi ?
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* Khaate waqt esi dilchasp Baate karo k Wo itminaan se khaa sake ,Kyuki be fikri me Daal bhi qorma kesi lagti he aur pareshani me Biryani bhi be zayqa lagti he ,
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* Ye baat Tajurbe Se saabit he k Bahut si nasamajh Aurte'n Shohar ke aate hi apni daastan sunane beth jati he aur uska khana peena ,uthna bethna sab dushwaar kar deti he aur fir Wo bechara Bager kuchh khaye piye uth jata he , isse Allah Ta'ala bhi naraaz hota he aur Khawind bhi na khush hota he ,
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* Agar Allah Ta'ala ne Tumko kuchh Salahiyat de rakhi he to Shohar ke kaam me haath batao ,Uska bojh halka karo ,Apni mithi zaban se uska GAM galat karo,Uske Sukh dukh me Shareek raho ,
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* Agar Kuchh pareshani Maloom ho to uski Pareshani door karo ,Agar Wo Qarzdaar ho jaye to Tum apne haath ke hunar se Uske qarz ke bojh ko halka kar do ,Fir Tumhare paas koi naqdi ,Zever ho to uski khidmat me pesh kar do aur Kaho k Aapke muqable me ye cheeze koi Haqeeqat nahi rakhti ,Aap ho to sab kuchh he ,
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* Aur in cheezo ko de kar ahsaan na jatlaao aur esi koi baat bhi mehsoos na hone do ,Varna sab kuchh bekaar ho jayega , Har waqt Uski khidmat me lagi raho aur uske Araam v Raahat Kï taraf se kabhi laparwahi na barto ,Uski Khidmat se gaflat na barto ,Ghar ke sab kaam kaaj Apne haath se hi karo ,Allah Ta'ala Sukh ke din bhi dikhayega ,
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* 4- Kifayat Sha'ari ,____KHARCH kam karo ,Kifayat Sa'ari se kaam lo ,Jo kuchh mile usme Se kuchh Jama bhi karti raho ,Kapde khud Siyo ,Khana Khud banao ,Bachcho Kï dekh bhaal khud karo ,is tarah kaafi Raqam bach jayegi ,
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* Kuchh baat puchhe to Narmi se Jawab do ,agar Wo kisi waqt gussa ho jaye to tum naram ban jao ,Uski marzi per Raazi raho ,Wo chahe Tumhare KAAMO se Raazi na ho fir bhi Tum uske huqooq ada karti rahi ,taki Allah Tumse Raazi rahe
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* Wo Jo Kuchh kama kar de usko dayanatdari se kharch karo ,Tum khud takleef bardasht karke bhi uski zarurat poori karo ,Esa saaf suthra maamla karo k har Aadmi dekh kar ya Sun kar khush ho jaye ,Dekho Tameez ,Salahiyat ,aur Husne intezam bhi Duniya me ek ajeeb hi cheez he ,
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* Saliqa mand Biviya'n hamesha Ghar ko Jannat Banaye rakhti he'n ,Khud bhi sukoon aur Chain se Zindgi guzaarti he'n aur ghar wale bhi araam se rehte he'n,
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* Husne intezam ek esi khoobsurat aur Roshan cheez he k iski Roshni door door tak pahunchti aur Felti he ,Aksar Mard Soorat Parast Kï banisbat Seerat parast hote he'n, Wo Zaahir khoobiyo Kï bajaye batini khoobiyo ke chahne wale hote he'n,
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*Yaad rakhiye ! Jo Aurte'n Muhabbat, Pyar ,Duniya Kï Sharm ,Allah Ta'ala ke khof aur usko Raazi karne ka jazbe se Khawind Kï khidmat karti he'n wahi aage chal kar Apne Shohar Kï Mehboob ban kar rehti he'n, aur Mard us per apni jaan tak nichhawar karta he ,
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* Uske Araam ,uski razamandi ka khayal rakhta he aur uski naaz bardari karta he ,Uski har Dili khwahish poori karta he ,Uske Dukh Ko apna Dukh samajhta he ,Jo kuchh kama kar laata he Sab uske haath per rakh deta he, Kabhi kisi baat ka hisaab nahi leta ,
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* Ese Miya Bivi Kï Zindgi Sukoon v Araam se guzarti he aur ye Niyamat Aqalmand Biviyo'n ko Husne intezam se naseeb hoti he aur bewakoof Aurte'n isse Mehroomi rehti he'n,
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* Agar Dulha Dulhan Shadi ke baad Kuchh waqt alhida guzaarna chahe to isme kuchh harj nahi ,Khususan Jin ilaaqo me Shadi ke baad Shohar apne Khandan ke saath hi rehta he ,Ese khandan ke Naye Shadi Shuda Jodo ke liye munasib he k kuchh waqt alag mahol me guzare taki ek doosre ke mizaaj se achchhi tarah waqif ho sake ,
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* Lihaza Agar ho sake to Honeymoon ka Aksar hissa Allah ke Raaste me Deen Seekhne aur isko felane me ( Masturaat Kï Jama'at ke saath ) lagaye ,Taki nayi Zindgi Kï ibtida hi Nek amaal Kï pabandi se ho aur Fikre Rasool Sallallahu Alaihivasallam par nayi Zindgi Kï Buniyad pade ,
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* Iske baad Kuchh waqt bache to Kisi jagah Kï Qudrati cheezo ko dekhne me guzaarna chahe to khushi se guzare ,
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* Kya hi achchha ho k Gunzaish ho to Miya Bivi Umrah karne ke liye chale jaye ,Taki un muqaddas maqamaat me apne liye aur aane wali nasal ke liye ,poori ummat ke liye Khoob Duae'n maangi ja sake ,
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* Jin Huqooq ka khayal rakhna chahiye unme Padosi ka Haq bhi he ,lekin Padosi kon he ? Har Wo Shakhs Jo Aapke Daaye Baaye, ouper niche 40 ghar tak pados me rehta he , Aur Jannat me Wo Shakhs Dakhil nahi hoga jiska Padosi uske Shar Se darta rehta ho ,
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* Islam Kï Nazar me Padosi ke Huqooq ke Chaar Buniyadi usool he'n ,
1- insaan apne Padosi ko takleef na pahunchaye ,
2- usko us Shakhs se bachaye Jo use takleef pahunchana chahta ho ,
3- Padosi ke saath achchha bartaav karo ,
4- Uski bad mizaji aur akhadpan ka burdbari v darguzar ( ignore ) se badla de ,
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* Padosi ke saath Husne Sulook ke bare me Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ne irshad farmaya,
Jis Shakhs ne apne ahlo ayaal aur maal Kï hifazat ke liye apne Padosi per Apne ghar ke darwaze band kar diye to Momin e Kaamil nahi aur Wo Shakhs bhi Momin nahi JISKA Padosi Uske Shar se mehfooz na ho ,Kya tum Jaante ho Padosi ka kya Haq he ? ( Nahi Jaante to Sun lo )
* 1- Jab Wo Tumse madad talab kare to tum uski madad karo ,
* 2- Jab Qarz manage to use qarz do ,
* 3- Jab Wo kisi cheez ka mohtaaj ho to uski Haajat poori karo ,
* 4- Jab Bimaar ho to uski ayadat karo ,
* 5- Jab use koi Bhalaai pahunche to use Mubarak baad do ,
* 6- Jab use koi Musibat Pahunche to Uski taziyat karo ,
* 7- Jab uska inteqal ho jaye to uske janaze me shareek ho ,
* 8- Apna makaan Uske makaan se ouncha na banao taki us ( ke ghar ) Kï hawa na ruk jaye ,magar ye k Wo ijazat de de ( to koi harj nahi ),
* 9- Tum use Haandi Kï Bhaap se takleef na pahunchao ( Yani tumhare ghar me pakne wale lazeez khano Kï mahak us tak na jaye taki use takleef na ho ) magar ye k tum usme se use bhi de do ,
* 10 - Agar koi Phal khareedo to usko bhi usme se Hadiya kar diya karo aur agar esa na kar sabko to chupke se chhupa kar le jao ,esa na ho k tumhara Beta Phal bahar le jaye aur use dekh kar Padosi ke Ladke ko takleef ho ,
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* Yaad Rakhiye ,Jo Shakhs Allah Ta'ala aur Qayamat per imaan rakhta ho use chahiye k Wo Apne Padosi ka ikraam kare ,
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✿●•· Padosiyo'n ke darmiyan Parde ka Khayal rakhe ,
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* Padosiyo'n ke saath talluq rakhne me 2 Baato ka khoob khayal rakhe ,
1- Unke Mardo se apna aur Apni Ladkiyo'n ka bahut sakht Parda hona chahiye, Unke yaha ka 12 Saal ka Bachcha bhi bager ijazat andar na aaye aur unke Bachcho ka Apni Bachchiyo se Mel jol na hone de ,Chahe chhote hi ho ,
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* Is tarah Apne Mardo Aur Betiyo'n ko unki Aurto'n se Parde ka khoob ahatmam karwaye ,ESA na ho k Aapas me be takallufi se Shaitaan ko aane ka moqa mil jaye ,Jabki Parde ke ahatmam se Shaitaan Se mukammal hifazat hoti he,
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* 2- Is baat ka bhi khoob khayal rakhe k Aapke Bachche Padosiyo'n Ke GHARO me JAA kar TV na dekhne PAYE ,Bachcho ko khoob samjha bujhakar Waha se door rakhe k TV ka zehar Bachcho aur Bado sabke Akhlaq tabaah v barbaad kar deta he ,aur mashre me Jurm aur Buraaiya'n fela deta he ,
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* Khud Apne ghar me bhi TV na rakhe aur Bachcho ko Padosiyo'n ke ghar me bhi ( TV dekhne ) na Jane de ,
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* Nek Padosi ka andaza Aap is waqye se laga sakte he'n k Hazrat Abdullah bin Mubarak Rehmatullah ka Padosi ek yahoodi tha ,Jab usne Apna makaan bechne ka iraada kiya to uski qeemat 2 hazaar dinaar maangi ,logo ne kaha k Tumhare makaan Kï qeemat to ek hazaar dinaar hi he ,Wo Yahoodi kehne laga ,Sahi he k ek hazaar makaan Kï qeemat Aur ek hazaar Abdullah ke Padosi hone Kï qeemat he ,
Isse Maloom hua k Nek Padosi ka mil Jana bhi Allah Ta'ala Kï ek bahut badi niyamat he ,
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✿●•· Aurte'n Aur Huzoor Akram Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Kï Chand Sunnate,
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* Huzoor Akram Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Rahmatul Aalameen the ,Mardo ke liye bhi aur Aurto'n ke liye bhi Rehmat the ,Lihaza Aurte'n bhi agar Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Kï Pyari aur Mubarak Sunnate apnayengi to gharo me Rehmate'n aur Barkate'n nazil hongi aur Muhabbat Kï fiza qayam hogi ,Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam aur Allah Ta'ala Kï Muhabbat Dil me badegi ,
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* 1- Miswaak ka ahatmam kare ,Khususan har namaz ke liye Vazu karte waqt ,Khane ke baad ,Tilawat karte waqt, Sote waqt aur So kar uthne ke baad Miswaak ka ahatmam Zaroor kare ,
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* 2- Subeh Shaam Kï Masnoon Duae'n aur har har moqe Kï Duae'n padhne ka ahatmam kare ,
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* 3- Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Kï Aadate Mubarak thi ,k Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ko Jab bhi koi sakht amr pesh aata tha yani koi pareshani ya koi takleef aati to Aap Sallallahu Alaihivasallam Namaz Kï taraf mutavajjah ho jate the,
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* 4- Bachcho ko ( khud bhi ) qazae Haajat ( Peshab Pakhana Vagera ) ke liye bethane me Khayal rakhe k Qibla Kï taraf na bithaye ,Qazae Haajat ke waqt Qibla Kï taraf peeth ya moonh karna bahut hi bada gunaah he ,
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* 5- Har cheez ka Len Den sidhe haath se kare ,Kisi Se koi cheez le to sidhe haath se le aur de to sidhe haath se de ,aur Bachcho ko bhi iska aadi banaye ,
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* 6- Ghar me aate Jate ya azeez Rishtedaro ke ghar me jate waqt Aurte'n Aapas me ek doosre ko Salam kahe ," Assalamu Alaykum "
Aapas me baat shuru karne se pehle bhi Salam kare ,
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* 7- Har kaam me Allah Ta'ala Kï taraf nisbat Kijiye k Allah me Hukm se ye hua ,Bachcha Allah me Hukm se Bimaar hua ,ye na kahe k Sardi lag gayi isliye Bimaar hua ,Fala Doctor se faayda hua balki yu kahe k Allah ke Hukm se Sardi lagne Kï Vajah se Bimaar ho gaya ,fala doctor se Dava li Alhamdulillah ! Allah Ta'ala ke Hukm se faayda hua ,NAFA nuqsaan Kï nisbat Allah Kï taraf kare ,Ittefaaq ka lafz istemal na kare ,
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* Ittefaq koi cheez nahi hoti ,Kaynaat ka ek ek zarra ek ek qatra ek ek patta girne me ,Behne me ,hilne me aur istemal hone me Allah Ta'ala ke Hukm ka mohtaaj he ,
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* 8- Aurto'n ko Chahiye k Azaan ka Jawab de ,Hadees Sharif me he k Jo Shakhs Mozzin ka jawab Dil ke Yaqeen ke saath de to uske liye Jannat Waajib ho jati he ,( Nasaa'i )
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* Lihaza Aurto'n ko Chahiye k Azaan ke waqt Baate na kare balki uska jawab de ,Mozzin Jo kahe usi tarah kahe ,Magar " Hayya Alassalaah " aur" Hayya Alal falaah " ke jawab me " La havla Wala Quwwata illa billahi ," kahe , Azaan ka jawab Zaban se dena mustahab v Masnoon he ,Fir agar Shara'i uzr na ho to foran Namaz Kï taiyaari me lag Jana chahiye,
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✿●•· Nek Bivi Kï Apne Shohar Ke Liye Vasiyat ,
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* Musalman ko chahiye k Wo Apni Vasiyat Zaroor likh kar rakhe ,Hadees Sharif me iske mutalliq bahut takeed aayi he ,Agar kisi ke zimme Qaza Namaze,Roze,Hajj ,ya kai saalo ki se Zakaat ada nahi Kï to is soorat me Vasiyat nama na likhna ek mustkil gunaah he ,Bivi Apne Shohar ke liye Vasiyat likhe ,
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* 1- Musalman Bivi ko chahiye k Apne Shohar se iski maafi maange aur koshish kare k Duniya se is haal me rukhsat ho k uska Shohar usse khush ho taki is khush khabri Kï misdaaq ban jaye ,Huzoor Sallallahu Alaihivasallam ka irshad he k ," Jis Aurat ka is haal me inteqal ho k uska Shohar usse Raazi he to Wo Jannat me Dakhil hogi ,"( Tirmizi)
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* 2- Isi tarah Alhamdulillah ! Nakhoon polish lagane Kï mujhe aadat Nahi he aur agar kabhi lagayi bhi ho to Vazu aur Gusl se pehle saaf kar leti hu'n ,Lekin agar meri Maut esi HAALAT me aa jaye to Gusl dene Se pehle Nakhoon Polish chhuda dena ,Isliye k bager Polish chhudaye na Gusl hoga aur na hi Namaz e janaza sahi hogi ,Isliye iska khaas khayal rakhna ,
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* 3- Agar Allah Ta'ala ne Aapko Aulaad Kï ni'amat se nawaza he to unko Hafiz aur Aalim banane Kï Vasiyat kar jaye ,
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* 4- Apne Shohar ko Vasiyat kar jaye k mere inteqal ke baad Aap gunaah Se bachne aur ghar ke intezam Kï khatir doosra Nikaah Zaroor kar le ,
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* 5- Mere liye Shariyat ke mutabiq hi Sawab pahunchane Kï koshish kare aur Raumaat maslan ,Teeja,Chaleeswa vagera se bache ,
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* 6- Mere Shinakhti Card ( ID ) aur Passport vagera ke Photos ya laparwahi se Maine kisi aur moqe per apni Tasveer khichwayi ho to zaaya ( ya faad jala de )kar de taki mere liye wabaal na bane ,
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✿●•· Bivi ke Zimme Shohar ke Huqooq, ( Short me )
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* Akhir me Shohar ke tamaam Huqooq ka Mukhtasar khulasa padh lijiye, Allah Ta'ala har Musalman Bivi ko is per Amal Kï Tofeeq ATA farmaye ,Aameen,
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* 1- Shariyat ke daayre me reh kar uski har kaam me ita'at karna ,ba-sharte k gunaah na ho yani uski ita'at aur Adab v khidmat me kotahi na kare ,
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* 2- Iski gunzaish ( haisiyat) se zyada naan nafqa Talab na kare ,
* 3- Shohar Kï ijazat ke bager Kisi ko ghar me na aane de ,
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* 4- Uska maal uski ijazat ke bager kharch na kare ,
* 5- Uski ijazat ke bager ghar se na nikle ,
* 6- Uski ijazat ke bager Nifl Roza na rakhe ,
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* 7- Agar Sohbat ke liye bulaye to Shara'i majboori ke bager inkaar na kare ,
* 8- Apne Shohar ko uski gurbat ya bad soorti Kï vajah se ya Apne aapse ilm v hunar me kami Kï Vajah se haqeer na samjhe aur taana na de ,
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* 9- Agar koi kaam ya baat Shariyat ke khilaf Shohar me dekhe to adab se mana kare ,
* 10- Uska Naam le kar na pukaare k ye Adab ke khilaf he ,
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* 11- Kisi ke saamne Khawind Kï Shikayat na kare ,
* 12- Shohar ke Rishtedaro ke saath sakhti na kare Jisse Shohar ko takleef pahunche ,khaas tor se Shohar ke Maa'n Baap ko apna Maa'n Baap samajh kar unke saath adab v tazeem se pesh aaye ,
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✿●• Aurto'n Ke Liye Chand Mufeed Kitaabe'n ,
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* Hum yaha Aurto'n ke Liye Chand mufeed kitaabo ka hawala dete he'n, Tamaam Musalman Aurto'n ko chahiye k in kitaabo ko hidayat Kï NIYAT se Khud bhi padhe aur Musalman Behno ko bhi ye kitaabe'n Padhne Kï targeeb de ,
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* 1- Ma'arful Qur'an,:- Ye Qurane Kareem Kï tafsser he Jo k Hazrat Maulana Mufti Muhammad Shafi Reh. ne likhi he ,
, 2_ Ma'arful Hadees :- Ye Ahadees Kï tasreeh he Jo k Hazrat Maulana Manzoor Nomani Reh .ne likhi he,
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* 3- Bahishti Zever,:- Ye Fuqha Hanafi ke Masail ka majmua he Jo k Hakeemul Ummat Hazrat Maulana Ashraf Ali Thanvi Reh. ne likhi he ,
* 4- Tohfa E Khawateen ,:- Ye kitaab Hazrat Maulana Ashiq ilaahi BulandShehri Reh. Kï bahut pyari kitaab he,
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* 5-6 - Fazaile A'amaal aur Fazaile Sadqaat ,:- Ye dono kitaabe'n Shekhul Hadees Hazrat Maulana Muhammad Zakariya Reh.Kï he ,Rozana in kitaabo Kï taleem ka mamool rakhe ,
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* 7- Ek Minute ka Madarsa ,:- Hazrat Maulana Shah Abrarul Haq Sahab Reh. Jama Tarteeb Hazrat Maulana Hakeem Muhammad Akhtar Sahab Reh.Rozana ke liye Sirf ek minute Kï ghar Kï Zarurat he ,
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* 8- Misali Bivi :- Daurane Hamal Akhtyar Kï Jane wali ahatyat, Bachcho Kï Deeni Shara'i tarbiyat ke liye beshumar bahut behtreen ANDAZ me likha gaya he ,
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